I am an Asian male and I date other races besides mine, especially Caucasian girls. They tend to be beautiful blondes and brunettes. I get a lot of crap from guys especially Caucasian males. But, my sister who is an attractive Asian girl dates only Caucasian men and gets nothing but hugs and kisses (acceptance) from everyone, and she doesn't get crap from anyone. What's the deal? I normally don't care what people think but it just gets so annoying cause sometimes situations can be right in your face. What to do? I can't smash in every guys face who talks smack to me.
2006-08-15 14:01:05 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Doesn't matter what other people think. No one else can tell you who to be attracted to.
2006-08-15 14:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give a crap about what other people thinks. You need to have 100% confidence knowing what you are doing is the right thing. When situations are right in your face, just handel it with your reasons...or if you really don't care just give some lame excuses..or joke off.
I don't get what's up with asian guys like to date white girls. I'm attractive asian girl..but i still favors asian guys, especially their intelligence..just need to be a little taller..since i'm 5'8''.
2006-08-18 00:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Madison 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asia involves a lot of different peoples who range in coloring from very dark skinned to almost alabaster; and features that fit all of the formerly-used racial terms Caucasoid, ******* (Capoid and Congoid), Mongoloid, and Australoid -- these terms now are only used in forensic anthropology since they are considered racially insensitive. Depending on your heritage, coloring and facial (head shape) features you might incur subtle forms of racism as a man that a woman might not and vice versa. I'm afraid that these forms of "racism" occur in every country -- it is part of human behavior. You should keep in mind that all communication is a two-way street (you even mentioning "smash in every guys face" implies an anger that may invite "crap" from others!).
2006-08-15 21:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by cranura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this doesn't come off sounding racist so i'm going to try to say this tactfully... What I think is that it deals with some of the racist ideals that some white people have been exposed to... Just as when other races date Caucasians they may feel as though you are "taking" their women... However they don't think of it that way when they date other women... It's kinda like a double standard that they don't think about... That's just my opinion and i hope i didn't come of as being racist...
2006-08-15 21:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by ronbacardi96 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The problem is the unfortunate "misconception" that asian guys are not well endowed compared to other guys. This misconception is the springboard for feelings of ill-will from people for asian guys dating other races.
2006-08-15 21:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by slyry75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick their rear ends when they give you crap. I dig white girls all the time while beating up their white boyfriends.
2006-08-16 03:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know, that is not fair. Plus, u see less asian men with white girl than asian girl with white men. its a trend i guess...
2006-08-15 21:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Travis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self-confidence is not enough at the moment, that is why you are feeling so shaky.
2006-08-15 21:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kanda 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get on with your life, theyll get over it too
2006-08-15 21:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by KOY3S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it that way, -- dont care wat ppl think about u,, and u should punch ppl,, kk,, but idt its needed,, as long as the GIRLS like u,,, it doesnt matter,,, guys,, just say screw u,,,
2006-08-15 21:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋