2006-08-15 14:00:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
3 years is along time have you sat down and talked about everything? I would sit and talk about it before you throw the towel in.
2006-08-16 11:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you both should give it all you've got. If you both agree that you both love each other then there is a way to get through the hard times. Counseling? Would both of you agree to counseling? If this isn't feesible from a financial aspect do you have a friend that is good at mediating? Three years is a long time to just walk away and turn away from the life you've made. Sending you hugs and hoping it works out for you.
2006-08-15 21:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to if you think he's worth the time and effort. If you do put in the effort to fix it then when all is said and done you'll most likely be stronger than ever as a couple.
With me and my boyfriend i noticed that we were having allot of fights and when i took a step back i noticed it was me who was initiating them almost always. I was condescending and made him feel like dirt. So i figured it was time to move on. I gave him the "its not you, its me" line and moved on.
If you do break up with him without at least trying a little then you'll always wonder how your life would have turned out if you had made up...
2006-08-15 21:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by sined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the both of you and what you both want. I'd say if you have to ask this question,then you've got some idea of what to do in the relationship. If you're done,then let him know you're done,and move on,don't keep him tied up with you if you aren't having the same feelings for one another anymore. Good luck,any type of relationship takes work!!
2006-08-15 21:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any relationship takes work to keep it together but if you have to work too hard and the other person is not trying then let it go..only you know if it is worth working for or if it is time to go your separate ways...i had a hard time letting go of my ex bf...we had been together off and on for 15 years but i finally had to put a stop to all the confusion and pain it was causing me..i feel much better now ...bless you and good luck
2006-08-15 21:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you guys should try harder to keep it going. You two must have a lot in common to be together for so long. Good luck.
2006-08-15 22:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by funtooabc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of problems are you two having? If you are having some serious problems and if you two want to work it out, I would try counsiling. It couldn't hurt. If you truly love each other then you can work out anything. Try talking about your problems. It seems to help me and my boyfriend. Good luck.
2006-08-15 21:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by ladiebugg81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By making what work? 3 years is a long time, I just don't know what you're trying to make work. Marriage?
2006-08-15 21:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Romaneasca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the problems are you all should work harder together to make it work. If you all want it to work.
2006-08-15 21:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all relationships have their ups and downs, once the honeymoon period is over, you get to know the real person, you ust have to be patient and never take each other for grantd, and if you love each other, try till you cant try no more, if it doesn work after that then it wasnt meant to be
2006-08-15 21:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by KOY3S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋