me and my bf have been trying to get pregnant and i nevr have an orgasm is that why
i guess the question would have to be how can i orgasm i have read all the articles and mags. and i cant do it im real sad because i want to get pregnant
2006-08-15 13:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by foxygirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
That's not the reason why. you don't really need to have an orgasm to get pregnant. maybe your timing is just off. women can only get pregnant on the 14th day after the first day of her last period. i tried for a long time but didn't succeed till now. since this is in the teen&preteen section if your under 18 then maybe god knows that your not ready for a baby. to be honest i tried when i was 14,15,16,17 but i didnt get pregnant till now i was 18 when i got pregnant and now im 19. i just figured that god didnt want me to have one so young and thats the reason why i didnt get pregnant. just be patient and it will come. i forgot about wanting to have a baby then it just happened. everyone says that when you dont think about it then it will happen.
2006-08-15 13:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by stressed&depressed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orgasms have nothing to do with pregnancy. Most women obtain orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Orgasm plays no necessary role in sex except to make it more enjoyable.
Why are you trying so much to get pregnant? I'm assuming you are a teen (at least that's where you posted the question), You need to be financially and emotionally prepared for a child before you start purposely trying to get pregnant. How will you provide for your child when you are only a child yourself? Do you expect that your family will help you? That's an unfair burden to put on your parents and it is selfish to expect everyone to help you because you try so hard to have a child when you will not be able to provide it with a healthy, nurturing home. You have your whole life ahead of you. Slow down and enjoy your time.
2006-08-15 20:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Drea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having an orgasm or not has nothing to do with you getting pregnant. Orgasm does cause the uterus to contract which does aid in the semen moving closer to the cervix.
I really think that you should think about getting pregnant a little more seriously. You are not married and he can leave you at anytime. You have no guarantees that he is going to stay with you.
What would your parents or grandparents think about you getting pregnant before marriage? What are your plans for the future? Are you out of school and working where you want to be forever?
There is a lot to think about prior to planning a family. Don't rush into it.
2006-08-15 20:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be trying to get pregnant anyway if you are a preteen or teen but maybe it's not you he could be shooting blanks. I hope you aren't like 13 cause i'm 13 and that should be the farthest thing from your mind. I'm preparing to go back to school tomorrow so I can LEARN. How old are you and have you taken sex ed yet because orgasms and getting pregnant have nothing in the world to do with each other.
2006-08-15 21:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by KAI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...u do not need to have an orgasm to get pregnant if you don't know that, then maybe you shouldn't be tring to get pregnant. All that matters is that he's ejaculating in you it has nothing to do with an orgasm. It could be Gods way of telling you not now and not with this man,...Good luck w/ everything!
2006-08-15 20:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by <<JerZygiRL>> 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not having an orgasm is not the reason you can't get pregnant! I think that you are try to hard and to much! I know because I was in your shoes not that long ago! I stopped worrying and trying so hard and am now 34 weeks(8months)! So hang in there and stop trying so hard. good luck and I hope it happens soon!
2006-08-15 20:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by sweetkaylie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 13 please stop trying to get pregnant. I didn't have my 1st until I was 20 and I still felt like I had to grow up too fast. Once you have a baby you can't go out and have fun with your friends nearly as much as you would like. While they are all out you will be home watching a crying baby, changing diapers, etc. Your teenage yrs will be gone without you ever getting to experience them. And don't depend on the guy to be much help because he won't be. Trust me.
2006-08-15 20:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get some of the test strips at the local drug store, you will find out that you only ovulate 2 days out of the month. The test strips will let you know when your fertal.
Orgasms have nothing todo with getting pregnant.
Send me an email and I'll tell you the root cause your not having any, and how too get their.
2006-08-15 22:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my daughter, I'd whoop your as s and send you to a Buddhist nunnery for 7 years. Orgasms...pregnant!?? WTF is wrong with you?? Go pick up a damn book, or research the atmospheric pressure and gas compounds on Neptune or something constructive like that.
God is evidently looking out for you, and you don't have sense enough to realize it. You are too young to be trying to have a baby. I wish your little behind was my daughter. Oooh, child, you'd be hating life. I wish I knew your mother and father.
2006-08-15 21:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Goddess of Nuts PBUH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... Just a guess, but you're like 13.
1). You don't need to have an orgasim to get pregnant.
2). Getting pregnant at 13 is not a smart idea.
2006-08-15 20:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by speed_goddess18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋