i wear conservative clothes a lot but it doesnt help. it makes me uncomfrtbale cuz colege guys will check me out in the car. it really botheres me.
2006-08-15 13:31:17 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
chihll out! at least you have hot guys in your neighborhood! and when you go to the beach you probably get more attention from the hot lifegaurds and boys then I ever will! remember taking walks and thinking of ways to have excuses to ring their doorbells!?!? THAT WAS FUN!!!!!! (yes this is you BFAAF, we have all oour classes together! yeah!) God made you just the way you are and if you see any guys looking at you the wrong way- ILL SLAP THEM LIKE I SLAP JAKE!!!!!!!!!! lol! So hun- don't worry about it! You're wearing modest clothes(i know your mom wont settle for anything less! lol) and thats the best you can do. Though we may try not wearing camis on our walks anymore! lol! I love you hun! Call me tonight!
And to prove I am Andrea- HE SLEEPING HE SLEEPING! And eat dark chocolate! This will help! or call me and we'll have a sleepover! Love you babe!
2006-08-22 12:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are getting unwanted attention. I used to have this same problem. I had to develop a few tricks. Sometimes, if I know I'll be active or even if I'm not I'll wear a sports bra and it decreases the breast size.
You could develop a sense of humor about it. That takes a lot of courage and confidence but it leads to less hurt, in my opinion.
With guys that I can talk to I just say a simple, "Hey, my eyes are up here." And then leave it at that. It may be awkward for a second but if it makes you comfortable in the long run that's what matters.
Unfortunately, there will always be people out there who are rude and don't respect other people. You just have to learn to brush it off and go on.
2006-08-15 13:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by spezlee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I too have big boobs and this is something that I've been dealing with for years. I've tried almost every thing. What works for me is big baggy clothes. I don't tape my boobs down cause it hurts to take it off. But i use an ace band to hold them down. and a minimizing bra. I even cut my hair to look more like a boy. It's not 100% but most of the uncomfortable looks have stopped. But u also have to learn to not let these guy's make u feel uncomfortable. Its ur body u have to love and accept it. Try also getting shirts that read. My eyes are up here. Or pervert.
2006-08-23 00:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Baby T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps we can all blame the clothing industry for placing decals and stitching smack dab in the chest region of your attire. If we pause to look at a decal you chose to market, are we to be held accountable. Have you ever noticed a man's fly down? If you weren't being a total deviant it would never have come to your attention. See how it works?
2006-08-15 13:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that will happen. What are you really mad at? Is it because you have boobs and the guys will not take you serious or is the girl friends that are jealous because guys look at your boobs & not theirs? Being blessed with brains and boobs is a good thing. Matter a fact it is out standing!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 13:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tanker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are bras out there that are called minimizers. I use them all the time. they will reduce the look of your breat size by almost two cups. I usually get them at the Leggs, Hane, Bali, Playtex outlet centers and cost about $18. you can also purchase them at walmart stores. Just ask a clerk to help you find them.
2006-08-22 16:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by tsd574 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting... well as a guy who likes to look i apologize for my brothers but thats an age age old hormone problem we have and even if you get one of us to like apologize and not do that to you well you only have 4 billion other guys to tell to stop. im sorry but that is male society at its worst still the territorial ape we were thousands of years ago. its sad, some girls dream their whole life for that exact type of attention and people like you who get it run scared in the other direction. what a crazy world.
2006-08-15 15:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by mournyngwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just obnoxious. Martial Arts training will help you to feel more confident about being able to protect yourself from these guys, and help you to feel less self concious.
2006-08-22 10:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to appreciate them, and stop surpressing your sexuality. Live and love life, that includes what others(men) find good about life. Your a beautifully designed person. If your uncomfortable, its all about your insecurities. Peace.
2006-08-15 13:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you are really hot. Sorry but beauty has a price. If it helps, you'll probably go far in the world with little work, just smile pretty and you're good.
2006-08-15 13:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋