my girlfriend is becoming too busy to see me anymore. what should i do?

Question

my girlfriend and i have been together six months now, and all summer we have been very in love, very affectionate, basically everything was perfect. now she has moved back to school early to begin her resident assistant training (which is even closer to my house than where she lived over the summer), but she works from around 9am-9pm sitting through classes. after she gets done, she just wants to work on things to have everything ready when the students move back in. i understand she is busy, and i know that she needs a little leeway here to do all the stuff she needs to do. it just makes it that much harder that i tell her i miss her and cant wait to see her and she says nothing like that back. we have had rough times before and i just kind of rode it out and everything smoothed back out again. but it is going to be 2 weeks before i move back on campus, and i dont know how things will be even when i do move back. she keeps telling me that the whole year is going to be busy like this.

Answer 1

Maybe it was a "summer fling" for her, I don't know.
But this is one girl who is very serious about her education. Let her do what she needs to; settle into the school life again. If she NEVER has time for you, keeps putting you off, then I would take a hint that the relationship is over.

Answer 2

i think that if she is too busy to spend a little time with you then you shouldnt waist time waiting for her to do what she needs to do. even with all the work, she should still make time for the one she loves

Answer 3

Stop being selfish,she's trying to better herself.Take the time to better yourself.

Answer 4

find out who she's seeing now

Answer 5

communicate openly with her and tell her how you feel

Answer 6

not be her friend

Answer 7

oh oh ............ that spells trouble