ok i told u about my dad and my brothers baby momma sleeping with each other and the boys birthday has passed but they are having a party this weekened..i dont think i can go..i think its best that the girl and i dont ever see each other because i will give her a peice of my mind i cant believe she is a betraying slut to have a baby by my brother and sleep with my dad...they both dont see nothing wrong with it...i wont be attending the birthday party ..think i am wrong? i will send a present with my sister i dont think i can handle my mouth if i go..
2006-08-15 13:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am 3 months so i think its best i stay home and be calm for my baby
2006-08-15 13:14:01 · update #1
You are smart not to go. You do not know what kind of drama is going to go down at that party. You do not need to be around that. Stay home. Send the present with your sister and let that be that.
2006-08-15 14:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by omarion's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go to the party its just going to make you crazy to be there and it could hurt you and the baby plus it is a day for your brothers baby and you dont want to mess that up because no matter what that baby is important and he/she doesn't need a birthday memory like that he/she already has a screwed up mother. When ever you have a few mintues alone with your brother explain to him that you love his child and will be in the childs life without being in his/her mothers life and that you still want to know his child.
2006-08-15 20:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Ta Loca♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can go..And i think you should go...but you wont allow yourself.. You are about to become a good mom and you know whats right and whats wrong with life and family matters. But you should be able to be strong around your family for the get togethers..You can be smart and mature and pull off what could be a good party. Your baby to be will pick up vibes that make you unhappy when its born. So dont hold on to bitter things. But thats my thoughts.. you be safe and congratulations x
2006-08-15 20:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by zoe32forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be best if you stayed at home during this one. Increased stress can cause a miscarriage. And you wouldn't want to lose your baby over something like that. Best wishes and good luck!
2006-08-15 20:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by x00_lucky_00x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant control your anger just send a nice message and a small gift to the party, stay home, and relax. it would be better for the both of you.
good luck with the baby! xoxo
2006-08-15 20:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Watermelon Punch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , don't go if you belive somthing bad is going to happen ,an I wouldn't go if it was me because there both wrong and i wouldn't won't to be in the middle of that so really just ask if you thnk you can handle going to the party and if so go if not don't. bye and I wish you the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 20:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by 1_hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best if you dont go especialy if you think you are going to mouth off.
congrats and good luck
2006-08-15 21:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, send a gift and don't go. That is a lot for anyone to deal with.
2006-08-15 20:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow they are really messed up. you have every right not to go, and I think it's best you stay away from people like that if you are going to have a child.
2006-08-15 20:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´t think you should go.I can´t believe they did that.Is your brother still with her.I can´t believe your dad did that t you brother.
2006-08-15 20:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by christiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋