my best fren seems like she's always competing w/ me. With everything and it's so annoying. i'm a really care free person. i don't gossip, talk behind ppl's back, i love my family and frenz and i do have respect for everyone. but my fren is the opposite and she's always trying to compete w/ me. she's a real sensitive person too and when i tried to talk to her about it, she got mad and changed the subject. how do i tell her to lighten up without her getting mad or ignoring me?
2006-08-15 13:11:27 · 4 answers · asked by softball_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
take it easy. be free with her.
2006-08-15 13:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really your best friend? i dont think so. Can you tell her ANYTHING and KNOW it will be kept in confidence? Too many people just flat out lie. what i mean by that is dont be afraid to state the truth. dont be afraid to tell it like it REALLY is. If you are really friends she will be able to accept you the way you are like you accept her the way she is.
2006-08-15 20:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by I_would_have_to_say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she want to be you maybe shes jealous and doesnt want to admit it real friends make you feel happy and cared about not like you have to beat them to the finish line she might not be the right friend for you but i get what you are saying i have a friend like that too but she does it with our daughters on my daughters birthday she went ith me to pick out the outfit for my daughter but when she came to the party she had went back to the mall and bought the same outfit and her daughter wore it to my daughters party whats up with these women.
2006-08-15 20:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are scamming her, "she's a real sensitive girl TOO" you are hoping you are planting an image of being real sensitive and if you speak up , you will tarnish that image. let her be who she wants to, she lets you choose most of the time.
2006-08-15 20:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋