That's all my boyfriend wants to do to me. And I'm really concerned because I heard it was bad for you.
2006-08-15 13:10:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
The main question is do you enjoy it ? Sex is for both people to enjoy not just one. It sounds like he enjoys degrading you. Anal sex can be bad due to possible tearing of the delicate tissue. It can also lead to stomach problems such as constipation and blockage due to swelling of the delicate tissue. Keep in mind that the anus is part of your digestive system. You need to be careful you can also get stomach infections this way.
2006-08-15 13:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ann S 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
SInce the rectum wasn't "created" to withstand the kind of fun and friction that our girly parts can, you need to be very careful when engaging in anal sex. First and foremost, it is VERY important that you NEVER have anal sex without a condom. Tearing is much more common in this fragile area, and can cause major health problems. Use plenty of lube, and be sure your partner is gentle and patient. But girlfriend, I think the real question you should be asking is why your partner only wants to have sex this way. There is definitely a reason and if you'd like my answer on that let me know.
2006-08-15 13:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by libraesque 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're a bit young to be worrying about this. If the guy you're with can't even stand to see you around your gay friend, then he isn't worth a sexual relationship right now. STDs are very much on the rise, and wearing a condom isn't a 100% gaurentee. Only abstinence is. Just wait until you find someone you can trust in and share a mutual understanding with. The bonding is so much more important than the physical action. Besides, your body is too precious to give to someone you have any doubts of with.
Not to mention, that you have plenty of time in life. Focus and get strong so that you can make better decisions about your sexual behavior. Not that I'm a feminist, but I hope that you're telling him what YOU want.
2006-08-15 16:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha N 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really if you use a condome and do not do it a lot as it does streach the muscles in your anal pasaage if you do it alot this can casue some porblemsand most ho paticipate in Anal sex frequnetly have hemoriods
I am not inot it but to t each thier own . i thin of it as a exit only and physically it is mnet only as a exit so be carefull and never put any object in there It can leadot a ER vist I am friednly withn ER personel and dated a ERE MD she told me it ha-pens every week end a persn need somethng surgically removed from thier butt . She would not partake weither . we di not find it needed for a full and satisfying sex life .
be careful
oh yeah tell him you want him to shove a beer bottle up his anal pasage and if he doesnt he does not love yopu . . Zif he isusiong that BS on you it is time ot move on
Oh what kind ofguy likes to haveanal sex i do question ther sexuality . I am perfectly happy the way it is intended to work pemnis ino th vagina .
2006-08-15 13:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by crps_1964 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is. The lining of your anus is very fragile and rips easily causing bleeding, risk of infection, fistulas and hemorrhoids. And the fun stays with you forever unless you get it surgically corrected.
And if you do have anal sex, make sure he washes "it" before moving to the house next door, unless you love getting serious vaginal and bladder infections.
Not to be judgmental but I would question someone who would want anal sex all the time. Maybe they are with the wrong partner.
2006-08-15 13:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Pregnancy is also associated with hemorrhoids. These conditions lead to increased pressure within the hemorrhoidal veins that causes them to swell. Other conditions, for example chronic liver disease, may also cause increased venous pressure and may be associated with hemorrhoids. Hemorrhoids are very common and are estimated to occur in up to one-half of the population by age 50.
2016-04-30 15:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad, you just can't force it. Take it slowly and only if you're relaxed and really into it. Use lots of good lube and tell him to be gentle. If done properly then the muscles will spring back without harm.
2006-08-15 13:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by audioworm31 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes it is bad, think about sending something out this way instead of in, if nature intended for us to have sex through the poop shoot than men would have babies, ask him if you can stick a cucumber up his *** for a few mins, and see if he agrees, he doesnt, tell him he doesnt love you.
2006-08-15 13:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by machiner94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, makes you crap in pants all the time. after you loose the elasticity of the O ring, So you have to use dippers on a very early age,
2006-08-15 13:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
anal sex is not bad,definitely...but if u ask me bout it,,, i prefer to choose the usual form of sex,,,vaginal sex
2006-08-15 13:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by chahmz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋