i told her i dont approve of her doing this but it was her decision, and i will still be her friend, but now she is saying she wants to have sex with him.......how do i get her to see this is a bad idea?
2006-08-15 12:55:24 · 14 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all.. keep telling her its a bad idea to be with this guy.. second of all... do her parents kno?? and third... tell her that sex with this guy is illegal!
good luckk
2006-08-15 13:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to really sit her down and talk to her.. That is all he is after.. Because he is older, he is telling her things, she wants to hear, just so he can get into her pants.... This maybe something her parents should know about. I don't know what state you are in, but a 20 year old with a 14 year old, is illegal... He is the adult, she is still not mature enough to make those decisions....
2006-08-15 20:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her parents involved!!!!!! This is wrong and a little sick, not to insult your friend, but this is a really bad dession on her part. Maybe talk to this 20 year old guy, he might think it's a bad idea too. But do what ever you can to stop her from doing this. If she goes on, she might be a mother at 14, and no one wants that.
2006-08-15 20:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by ajmcleanrocksmysocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to find out the hard way that she gave it up for someone who can't possibley have any interest in her personality/hopes & dreams (which i HOPE she values in a relationship). But if you've told her multiple times and she refuses to listen, let her find out for herself, the hard way. It may be cruel, but it'll show her the real world.
2006-08-15 20:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by hello_earth@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first! where is your friends parents? I would go to the guy and explain to him that he he really playing around with jail bate.Tell him that you will go to the police and change him with asult/rape and having sex with a minor! he should see things in a diferent light.
2006-08-15 20:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is tell her some daring facts like you might get pregnant and your too young and more stuff like that so she wont make a bad choice like that plus if she doesn't listen to o well she will just regret what she did to her self
2006-08-15 20:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try really, really hard to get her to see that this is a bad idea. Hormones are talking here, thats all it is, and you have to let her know this. It is very illegal.
2006-08-15 20:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok thats kinda strange... now later in life that might b ok but now thats kinda creepy this guy might b some sex preditor 4 all she knows
2006-08-15 20:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t see where is the problem.If he &her love eachother.But if you see he didn`t love her,you can explain and proove this for youre friend.I dont know ,think something,if it is like this.
2006-08-15 20:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by roberta _ l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her it wrong and tell her he can go to jail for dating a 14 years old.it very sick. God Bless.
2006-08-15 20:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by wallyboy197819962001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋