I know thats a hard choice to make but, I would believe my boyfriend. For # 1 we have known each other for a long time. For # 2 those are females (your so call) friends and they probably could be telling you that because: there jealous,hate to see you together,or so they can go with him or even try to hook one of there friends up with him. And also to let you know the people that you are really cool and close with can be your worse enemy. So when you have a problem like that remember this and don't listen to everything you hear, because if you do it's going to cause a harder time in your life and get you somewhere where you don't want to be! So just remember this and believe in yourself, and be a LEADER NOT A FOLLOWER, and take your on advice.And if you come down to another problem like this don't worry, because you is going to get something good out of it!!!
2006-08-15 12:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TALK TO HIM-----IT'S TERRIBLE TO BE ACCUSED OF SOMETHING YOU DIDN'T DO------FORGET THE HEN PARTY
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2006-08-15 12:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by alice b 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This not a hard choice for me. I would believe my friends. First, I don't have girlfriends that would make bogus claims like that. Most of my girlfriends are long term friends, I'm talking 10 to 15 years plus, so I have no reason not to trust them. Second, if seven people are all telling you the same thing they can't all be wanting to get with this guy. Closing your eyes to all seven people would be just asking for trouble. It would be more likely that this guys is cheating, than all seven girls are lying. Yes the people you are close with can be enemies but people also cheat, so it's not out of the realm of possibility.
2006-08-15 12:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're blinded by love, sweetie. Yes, maybe if one of your less than honest girlfriends tells you he's cheating, she could be jealous and lying. But if SEVEN of them tell you, they're probably not plotting against you. Cheaters are masters at lying, so how can you be so sure he's telling the truth? But if you really want to be a "leader not a follower" and go with your gut, stay with him. Just don't be surprised when you catch your guy and his ex in bed together.
2006-08-15 12:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a very detestable person, I dun think why all other 7 pp will have the same feelings towards you. a Leader does not close their ears to other opinions. They will listen and decide from all the opinions given.
Find out the truth (you have a good reason to) instead of guessing. I believe you know how to..
2006-08-15 12:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by happie_julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blah, blah, how many does it take to convince you, 10, 15, 20? Look, if you feel that he is ok, then that is just fine. In real life, he probably is. It is just if you want to do anything about it? Really, all this talk is just to justify staying with him, but I think you know better. Just go with your gut, but just know that there is going to a broken heart down the road if you are wrong. He does not have to let you down easy you know. When he finds another, you will be out the door, You never know someone really, until you are married to them.... unfortunately.
2006-08-15 12:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh really! What if later u caught him cheating. Then what? imagine the big dissapointment that would be in your life. never under any circumstances, trust a guy 100%. I dont know who your boyfriend is so I cannot get jealous of u 2 and I still give u the advice of not trusting him.
2006-08-15 14:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by felina412 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If 7 of your friends told you this and you are still not sure then you really need to think about your friendships. Chances are you wouldn't be asking this if you knew for sure. If you have close friends you know you can trust then trust them. If you have open communication with your boyfriend them trust should be there too. If you cannot trust your man, lose him. You don't need the stress and there are thousands more.
2006-08-15 12:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Doug... I am sorry, it sounds like you are in denial. Seven friends... 1, maybe...2 a possibility..
7 ... time to talk with your boyfriend.
2006-08-15 12:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a detective ur self, see what u can find out! Don't go on hear say, and don't jump to anything u will regret..... u usually find out for yourself anyway by the change in his mood, attitude etc.....
2006-08-15 12:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by fox69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you trying to convince me or yourself, if 7 of your friends told you , that should be enuf, you are in denial, (not the river either) 7 friends would not all be compelled to lie to you about the same thing.
2006-08-15 12:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not a hard choice, you are just in deep, deep denial. poor girl.
2006-08-15 12:45:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋