can someone help? pregnant and mad?

Question

well here it goes we just found out after my step-mom and dad split up my dad is sleeping with my brothers baby momma sick huh? what do u think about that? they both know better..now we are thinking its not even my brothers son..i want to **** the ***** up but i am 3 months pregnant and my baby is more important that that big *****..should i have so much hatred towards her?

Answer 1

As trashy as it is, don't do anything to jeopardize your pregnancy. Like you said, your baby is more important. Just cuss everyone out, and if they try to say anything, blame the hormones (they can be good for something)

=) Good luck!

Answer 2

Well i don't think you should care that much about the whole subject, i think if your old enough to be pregnant then you need to living your own life, so what if your dad is a cheater,leave all this mess to your dad, step mom and brother, it really has nothing to do with you plus all this stress and anger is not good for your baby, let them resolve this by themselves and just worrie about you and your baby.

Answer 3

honestly i think that you need to just calm down and relax. i do see why you are mad but really there is nothing that you can do about the situation this is your brother's and your dad's problem. let them deal with it. i personally think that the person that everyone should be more mad at is dad. how can he do that to his own child? i hope that the baby is your brother's son or else you two have got yourself a new baby brother. i do understand why you are mad at her too obviously but you can't really do anything about it especially since you are pregnant and your baby is worth more than bothering with her stupid ***....like i said though just stay away from that situation if you can because you don't need to be going through all that stress because of their stupidity. let them figure things out.

Answer 4

well it's as MUCH her fault as youR dear ol daddy EVEN MORE SO YOUR DADS FAULT he's the older adult i'ld be way more mad at HIM!. If she is over 18 "of course dads a adult" stay outta their business. Its crappy 4 your brother to think about dad doing his ex gf but its really there CHOICE. BEAT HER UP that's just stupid and immature HONESTLY that could land you in jail and make having any relationship with your dad non existent. You can let them know you disapprove when all is said and done you can't BEAT HER into not sleeping with your dad! good luck you don't have to be happy 4 them but you do have to relise you need to stay out of it! BEATING people up seems to be the top option for un educated people use your HEAD NOT YOUR HANDS GIRL!.
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Answer 5

NO, leave it...anything you say, do, sing, drink eat, ANYTHING YOU DO AT ALL...is transfered to the baby!
My parents did the same thing...tried to get a divorce over some lame problem, they brought to my attention.
I just let it GO!
It is not healthy...
I was also beaten badly during my 5th month, long story, and by baby survived, but she was so evil I mean not her fault, she just grew up having those violent fits of rage, specially when her dad yelled at me...and even into her teen years she had yerrible trouble with anger. She has learned to deal with it now using some special techniques.
ANYWAY...
NO do not get into it!
Try to be as peaceful as possible...and enjoy a variety of things, sounds and smells...things like that, that you want YOUR baby to love.
Many Blessings!

Answer 6

ofcourse you be mad at her for not only hurting your brother but sleeping with your dad. your dad is the one who should know better than to sleep with his sons girlfriend.
but if i were you i would stay out of it as much as i can, be there for your brother but dont go out of your way to start fights with her or your dad, let them know just how hurt you are by ignoring them and leaving them on they're own. if you and your brother can be adult about this and not deliberatly start arguments then you ar eproving you are the better person. what they done was wrong and sick i dont know how mad i would be if i was in this situation. remember you are pregnant and you don't need that stress put on you and baby. goodluck with mother hood it's the best. remember support your brother

Answer 7

yes, your hatred is VERY acceptable. adults do as they please... but it hurts ME to think that your dad is being so insensitive to his own son... it more than hurts me... it sickens me. he has crossed the line. there is no sense in getting upset with the woman, she's just a FOOL! i'd be pissed at my dad... it is a duty of a parent to love and protect our children... your dad has broken a sacred trust. I'D BOYCOTT HIM FOREVER. and as for your nephew... that you are now suspecting is your 1/2 sibling (sounds like a soap)... if i were your brother i'd have some DNA testing done. i feel badly for you and your family. my thoughts are with you.

oh, and don't do anything to land your hinny in jail... or put your unborn child at risk with a cat fight! and try not to get to upset...none of that is good for you and the baby now (i know it's easier to say than do!)

Answer 8

I agree that it's sick if true, however it's your brother's problem. he can demand a dna test. either way the other child is your niece/nephew or half brother/sister. you may want a relationship one day with that child so don't burn all your bridges. keep your nose out of it and you'll come out looking the most intelligent of the whole lot. let them settle it.

Answer 9

You need to place blame on both sides. Both your dad and your brothers baby's mother are to blame.

Answer 10

Sounds like a popular topic on a Springer show.