2006-08-15 12:24:33 · 53 answers · asked by the homewrecker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't get even...get on...that is the best advice.
Find peace, forgive, build a new and happier life for yourself. Fill your days with activies, friends and loved ones.
Simply divorce, split up, and be WISER than him. Don't rush into a relationship that quickly again.
2006-08-20 11:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by schnikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire an attorney and pay him about $1,500 and he'll tell you what to do. The advise you get off this site may be free but it's worth exactly what you are paying.
If you have children with this creep and he has money, you will soon have the money and custody of the kids.
If he's poor you didn't need him anyway. WHAT WERE YOU THINKING WHEN YOU MARRIED INTO POVERTY?
If you're both from Arkansas or anywhere near the Blue Ridge Mountains call The Jerry Springer Show and see if you can get on. At least you'll get some money out of the deal.
2006-08-23 08:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by aviator147 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best divorce advice will be given by your layer. Forget it happened, once a cheater, always a cheater. Go on with your life, he's not worth a chance. On the other hand, she is the one who has to worry now and believe me she won't be happy with him because she will live with the expectative that if he cheated on you he'll do the same to her and that will be "hell" for both. I'm portorriken and down here there is a saying that reads "lo mal quitado no luce". If you know someone who speaks spanish, ask what this means. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-23 06:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is reinvent yourself and MOVE ON! There is really no need to get back at him:
1. He wasn't man enough for you
2. She won and you lost
3. You are better off without him....
Get a hair cut, color your hair and get some new clothes...live life to the fullest and make sure everywhere you go you are looking the bomb! Just incase those back stabbing bastards see you...atleast they will see you're doing just fine! As far as divorce is concerned...see if there is a way to protect your assets from him but at the same time see if you can get a peice of his!
2006-08-23 05:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Benny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start living your LIFE. Try to move on, even if you still have love for him he obviously didn't feel the same way. I'm sure he'll start to love you again if his new woman cheats on him or leaves him, he'll be right back at your door! So move on and don't give him that opportunity, live your life and enjoy .You only get to live it once and time flies by even when you're NOT having fun. Don't have regrets, should of's and could of's. LIVE.
2006-08-23 07:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex is living with her too, and he wish the hell he had not made that step from what he's trying to make our kids believe. The kids say he's miserable, and I tell them he'll be alright. He was warned about that home wrecker, so let him deal with it. (her) What has to happen is you need to ignore them and live for you & kids if there are any. Things will eventually be really good on your part once you let go, and prayers will help get your mind into what God wants for you and your happiness. Take time to put things in order now that you are without him (ex), and you'll see it for the better.
2006-08-15 12:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that the best revenge is living well. Get yourself the best divorce attorney his money can buy. He will be responsible for paying your attorney's fees as well as all the household bills until the divorce is settled. Let's see him enjoy life with his nasty bittch when YOU are the one with all his money! Make sure you look DAMN good and date the HOTTEST guys you can find. Find dudes to call his bittch and be like, "You Cunnt, you gave me herpes, Bitcch!"
2006-08-21 17:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by applegirl1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have children - keep it clean!
Depending on the state - you can sue her for alienation of affection. Check it out! Also - for every three years of marriage, you can get alimony. The laws state that you are to be compensated to the point that you live as you are accustom to!
Make sure you file for the divorce!
2006-08-15 12:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he will sign the papers go to the courthouse pay the fee and divorce him quickly with no major cost, get him for child support get evidence of him cheating so you can get a divorce quick and get him the **** outta there
2006-08-23 05:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by rasheeta1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play the getting even game. Just find a lawyer and get your divorce. If you try and get even you just end up being as low as he is.
2006-08-23 05:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by fivestarmama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋