I already have 2 kids. I want another so bad. I'm 23 yrs old. Im very responsable and hard worker. I give me kids eveything. I love them very much. I want to have another while im young. I see older people with kids and they dont do much with them. I Still have energy to run and play and bake a cupcake with my daughter. The thing is im a single mom no help what so ever from dad. He is in prison for ever. Of course I would have to find someone else. What should I do? Go for it or be patient.
2006-08-15 12:23:29 · 15 answers · asked by mexchick316 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe that people should wait until they are married to have children. I am so glad to here that you are doing so well ! I am 22 , married and have a 3 year old daughter. I am ready for a baby now . I can't wait. Just wait until you find someone and marry them. Than have another baby. Good luck !
2006-08-15 12:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like to be 'pregnant' and it's all up to you. I guess if you already have 2 then having another won't be much of a difference. Just as long as your not living of the government. If you work for your kids and provide then, more power to you. It's terrible that some women have kids all over and live of the government. But even though he is in prison you can still collect child support. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't let him off that easy! Good luck.
2006-08-15 19:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a male, I believe it is normal for some women to want to be pregnant. My wife would always seem to go through moments like yours about the time one of ours was getting out of diapers. The responsible thing would be to not have another unless you can mentally, physically, and financially care for a third. If you are able and having another would not in any way affect your existing children, then sure. But if you can not meet all three, then it would probably be wise the curb your desire. So to answer your question, it depends.
2006-08-15 19:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Wake Cobra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue, but there is always more to the story. It sounds like you have a good handle on the life you lead, but are there other areas that are lacking? I don't have any of my own children, yet, but I want to have one.. just one.. some day. I'm not at the point in my life that I feel I'm capable of taking care of even one child. I'm focused on my career, but you may already be beyond that point if your time is devoted to your kids. Make sure you consider everything, especially the time and money it would take away from your other two. Are you going to have enough money to put them all through college? If dad's in prison, it's paramount to make sure that they don't follow in his footsteps.
2006-08-15 19:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it is absolutely normal to want to be pregnant! :) dont worry there is nothing wrong just mother nature playing tricks on you. As you well know by the age of about 13 or so your body produces hormones to signal your body is ready to reproduce. those signals will come in waves. you should feel it between the ages of 16-18 and then again between 21-24 and again between 29-35. you are just riding the wave right now so if you feel you can support anothe go for it but otherwise just ride it out! good luck! :)
2006-08-15 19:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just enjoy your 2 children and try to give the best to them. You don't need another one, I doubt you have enough of you soo called 'energy' for 3 kids. Plus, 2 kids its ok but 3 when trying to date another man? He'll get scared. Also, I don't know what type of job you have but think aobut your kids future, if you are by ureself by the time they are 18 GUESS WHO PAYS 4 COLLEGE?, are you gonna have enough money each kid to get an education? They better go 2 UNI cuz u really don't want' em to end up like their daddy do u?
2006-08-15 19:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You badly need some advice.You will have a child now.Is there any guarantee that you don't need an another one.You are a hard worker now.Just think about your future.If something happens and you won't work hard as much as you do now,which you require when you have three kids..Never ever take chances on your child's life.I know what it feels like having a bad,uncaring childhood.PLease don't do that..
2006-08-15 19:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kris chaitu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first,it is very normal for a young woman or any woman in some cases to want more than one or so children,however it is very important that a child have male as well as female influence in their lives so,it would be better to find someone who is willing to stay for the long haul,someone who is responsible and will not in up in prison,who can help in the support their child.
2006-08-15 19:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling of wanting more kids! I had my first two before I was 28 yrs old..divorced their father and stayed single for 10 yrs...met my CURRENT (keeping him on his toes with that word!!!) husband and had two more...I'd have more if I wasn't so old....it's normal for your "clock" to be ticking...I'd make sure you find the person who's gonna stick around before bringing someone else into the world...
2006-08-15 19:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient girl. Your idea is right about having them while you're young, but you still have lots of time to be young. Wait it out and you'l find the right time.
2006-08-15 19:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by katiej47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋