I've been separated for 8 months. My 'husband still thinks I shouldn't go out and I should only sleep with him(what the hell). But I'm tired of saying no all the time, so.....I don't. There's nothing wrong with that, right?
2006-08-15 12:21:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lifes too short to be tied to an albatross, dive in , be safe and have fun.
2006-08-15 12:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what feels right for you! After all you separated from your husband in the first place, so there is something wrong there. I really don't see nothing wrong with it. Your husband may just have to get over it, as it sounds like you are through and are now enjoying your new found freedom.. But, I am also surprised that you have made it known to your husband that you are wanting to sleep with someone else. I also admire your honesty with that.
2006-08-15 12:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Leilani L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go out and date. But, are you ready to break off your marriage for once and after all? If you're not, then its best not to start dating other people. Because your feelings would still be on your husband and you aren't ready to date. If you seriously ready to call it quits with your husband; then I say go for it. Be careful not to be decieved when you first meet a guy and it seems to be all great. Every relationship starts great and perfect until you really get to know the person a couple of months later. Don't decide to get serious so soon! Date and have fun just be careful! My mom is planning on divorcing my stepfather and she's already seeing another man! Yet she is still living with my stepfather. Well, good luck!
2006-08-15 12:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with see another guy. You have been separated for 8 months.something had to be wrong with you and your husband or you wouldn't have separated...
2006-08-15 12:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by jonsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'm pretty sure separated means you're still married. Hurry along the divorce proceedings and you can do whatever you like. Any good judge will see adultery or infedelity as a negative on your part.
2006-08-15 12:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by shoemanshoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you discussing your personal life with your soon-to-be-ex husband? If you are in the process of getting a divorce then what you do is none of his business. You need to take responsibility, sweetie, on the way you choose to run your life. You are obviously confused.....get it together on what you want and try to make some intelligent decisions.....if you can.
2006-08-15 12:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are officially separated, you have all the right to be seeing other people. Your husband does not own you.
2006-08-15 12:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna do whatever works for you.
If you are still technically married & both of you are sleeping ONLY with each other, then no, there is nothing wrong with it. If it's good, take it girl.
2006-08-15 12:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you going to get a divorce. if you are not going to be with your husband no it not wrong.
2006-08-15 12:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sure sounds like a tool date if you want to its not up to your ex or just some total stranger
2006-08-15 12:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋