What do you guys...and maybe even girls think about love... pure love....?

Question

Really...if sex was it all then what is the use of THE ONE....I mean..you can only love make for so long.... a dying flame....
But imagine that there was no sex ( and obviously that we were born in some other way ), then would most of us stil be with each other?
I think true pure love in its truest divine sense is dying out in this world.....a love that gets you high, on such a different level, a love with which all you might want to do is touch their hands...and nothing more....all the while being happier and more contented than in any other way possible, with a feeling of pleasure so much better than sex, in such a different level..that those two words shouldn't even be used in the same sentence. That when you say I love you, it doesn't at all mean I want to go to bed with you. and this time...it is really a flame that never dies.....

Maybe I am feeling weird.....but I'm serious.
Oh yeah I'm feeling weird, so any non wise crackers unlike me want to answer?

Answer 1

hey i love you way to think !!!!! . when you said i love you that doesnt mean i want go to the bed !!! that is true , the love is something magic, pure, mistic and the sex is just two bodys together ... I meet a monk from tibet he told me .. when you know what is the love and make the love with your couple that will be a explotion a magic explotion ... so maybe is so Cheesy !!! but the true is i think you can love a rock, a book , your family, you can love everthing with all your sense and of course is better than sex because to the end when you are old and you dont have nothing material for give you always will have love for someone !
how old are you ? i like a man think like you ! good day !!! I wait you find the answer that you look for

Answer 2

If you're wrong, if that kind of love doesn't exist, Shakespeare's Sonnet 116 wouldn't have been written.

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

So you're on the right track. All you have to do is only have sex with the girl you've EVER MET that you respect the most. You have to make a play for that girl and avoid all other chicks -- this is called "serial monogamy." Most men can't do it.

Answer 3

Sex isn't about love. It can happen between two people in love, but sex is no more a matter of 'love', to me, than chocolate. It is something that I enjoy, maybe even something I feel that I have too much or too little of, at times. But in my mind, pure love is only shared by two people who have found the missing pieces to their own puzzles. You cannot be in love with someone unless that person is also your best friend. While retaining a sense of your own independence, there is no person in the world whom you trust or whom with you would rather be. Feelings flow with the river of time-- frustration or even anger may flare up, but at your very core, you know there is nothing you could ever do to hurt that person or betray that trust. For if that betrayal ever occurs, you are no longer in love, and that thought, truly, is heart breaking.

Answer 4

a lots of people mistake love for sex, love is not all about sex, i believe love is all about caring, happiness and wishing each other well. sex on constitute 5% of what love is about, but in marriage sex constitute 64% of what love is all about.