My girlfriend is 17 yrs older than me and we're in love deeply. We're so addicted to each other's boddy that, in many occasions, we've "made love" for hours and "had sex" for hours too. We have very passionate and strong feelings for each other like NO other couple out there, BUT we also feel our sexual attraction is too high that we're scared of what might happen in the future if we tie the knot.
2006-08-15 12:09:49 · 12 answers · asked by FJ23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We've been dating exactly for 13 months and still badly attracted to each other. She's 40 and I'm 23 years old but we look like a couple with ONLY -10 yrs of age difference. She looks GREAT!! and I look slightly older than my real age.
2006-08-15 12:54:52 · update #1
Well, we have lots in common: exotic music, taste in cars and clothes...Of course, not everything. Sometimes we read each other's mind and we give each other pleasant surprises. On our 4th date I surprised her when I pulled out an Album of World Music that she also had....The AMAZING part is that this ALBUM is SO exotic that NOT too many people would like it. And small things like this has been happening between us.
2006-08-16 01:45:29 · update #2
As long as both your sex drives are the same as each others, you have no problems, especially if you both have high sex drives and attractions to each other. Just make sure you both make time to get important duties done, like going to work and paying the bills. If it gets in the way of the other aspects of your life, then you have a slight problem, and so you would just need to be a bit better at schedualing your days.
Enjoy yourselves.
2006-08-15 12:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention your ages, and that could make a difference. If you are very young and just beginning life, I would say no. Don't get married just yet. If you are at least 30 and have been out in the world long enough to know the difference between lust and love it is a different story.
You are wise to worry about the future. What would happen if the sexual attraction faded? Is there a solid base of love to hold you together? That is the important question. What do you do together as a couple that has nothing to do with sex? Think about it. You may understand more about whether you are meant to marry or not.
2006-08-15 12:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many people would ENVY you for your sexual passion. But she's that much older than you, you might need to take a look at things. Do you think you can be in a relationship, a good, commited relationship? Or is this just sex?If it's just sex, I wouldn't get married. Just fool around til you get bored or find someone more your age. If it's not just sex, maybe you should want to tie the knot. After all, you can never have too much sex!
2006-08-15 12:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes! Why not, if that area is good in your relationship, that can help you overcome a lot (trust me!!! :)~). If that is the ONLY thing you have in common, though, probably best to pass on marriage, there does need to be more, plus how long have y'all been together? If it's brand new the sexual attraction will be signifigantly higher then it will be later down the road, so make sure you like each other, really like each, in a friendship way, that and the great bedroom action should be a great combo, in my humble opinion!
2006-08-15 12:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Sexual attraction is good, but will that still be around when you two can't resolve problems that come up in marriage. The fact that you both are scared of what might happen in the future is reason for some serious though and personal debate between you two.
2006-08-15 12:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the worst decision a couple can make. Why do you need marriage? Have you read the average of the divorce rate these days? Over 60 %. You two can be happy and be in love without a piece a paper. Give eachother promise rings, but don't go through this ritual of a marriage.... you might regret it later.
2006-08-15 12:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by mariah j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual attraction shouldn't be the only reason for getting married. Marriage is a big undertaking and there are a lot of factors (besides sexual attraction) that are involved.
2006-08-15 12:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, no longer in elementary terms do you may evaluate one yet another, you may evaluate the families. Unfortuneately each and each others family members could have a bearing on the relationship. That mentioned, it extremely is in elementary terms been 13 months, that may no longer alot of time. save on keepin on and notice how u experience in a pair of years. human beings replace alot, yet whilst what you have is meant to be, you would be waiting to bypass the area. Sexual charm clouds alot of subject concerns, like each and every day subject concerns etc. be happy yet do no longer ignore to stay on the comparable time and comprise human beings on your life.
2016-12-17 11:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that I'm interested in a much younger male, that sounds really promising. :-0 What I have a problem with is being seen publicly with him with people thinking he could be my son. :-( So, please let me know what the outcome will be on your situation, it just might help me in mine. We haven't had a 1st date yet because of my fear of the age thing, because I have a daughter almost his age plus 3 others.
2006-08-15 12:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'v been married for 8 yrs and it has not slowed down yet. Go for it
2006-08-15 12:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by LJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋