r u sure you are? if you are you need to speak to someone - NOW!!!! a parent, an adult, a friend, a dr etc..
Have you taken a test? Not meaning to be patronising, but have you had sex? Often girls think cause their period is late / not started, they're pregnant, when actually they just havent developed properly.
If this is a cry for help, you need to get it another way!!!
TALK TO SOMEONE _ FIND OUT IF YOU R AND GET SOME HELP
2006-08-15 12:11:48
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answered by schmushe 6
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I am not going to scold you I think you already know that what you did is not something someone your age should have been doing but I am going to tell you, Do not have an abortion don’t listen to the people telling you too. You will regret it in the long run. I had one when I was 18 and it still hurts when I think about it, I was messed up in the head for a long time lost all kinds a weight I was 110 and went down to 80 pounds.
I know you are only 11 but it is not like you are the first 11 year old to get pregnant life goes on, and abortion is not your only option they have different kind of adoption where you can still keep in contact with your baby, or you could give it to a family member. If you are scared it is alright, you should be but you should really talk to your parents or if you go to church someone there and go see a doctor right away. And you should tell your parents before someone else does. Well if you need someone to talk to please feel free to email me.
-Teena
2006-08-15 12:33:21
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answered by stevenandteena 2
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I am sure you are going to hate to hear this but you need to talk to an adult immediately. Go to your parent if you feel like you can or even you schools counselor. Even though it is possible to get pregnant at 11 you body is not really ready. You need to go to a Dr. right away. You are going to need a lot of family support so I pray that there will be a lot of people willing to help out but just remember that if you play you pay. You are this child mother and he/she is your responsibility. If you are not willing to take that responsibility there are a lot of loving families that have been praying for a baby to love. Do what ever is best for this baby. Good luck.
2006-08-15 13:40:45
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answered by Tara P 2
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My wife got pregnant at 17, our daughter is 6 now. Stay strong honey, listen to no criticism from ANYONE, whats done is done. Your parents MUST know! I know you are scared but honey being 11 and pregnant give you an extremely high risk of losing the baby and even losing your own life. Abortion would probably be your best choice. BUT THE CHOICE IS YOURS AND YOURS ALONE. LET NOONE TELL YOU WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT DESCISION FOR YOU AND THE BABY SO TAKE YOUR TIME, THINK IT OUT WITH YOUR PARENTS, AND IN THE END YOU MAKE THE CHOICE. GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATULATIONS!
2006-08-15 12:18:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Honey the best thing to do is to give your baby up for adoption so that the baby and you can have the best possible life. Babies need more then just love and you are to young to get a job to bring enough money to feed cloth and diaper baby. This is not the end of the world but a lesson not to have sex untill you are an adult so that you do not get an unwanted pregancy. Get a socil worker to help yuo and talk regularly with your mom and dad
2006-08-15 12:16:10
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answered by Anonymous
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I know you are scared now, but the best thing for you to do is talk to your parents. I know that they are the last people that you want to talk to, but you need to. These are two people who love you most in this world, and while they will be upset with the situation and maybe even with you, they will always love you and will always be your parents no matter what. You can get through this, you just have to stay strong and know that your parents love you, and that everything will work out okay. Stay strong sweetie!! Ignore all these others who are judging you. They dont know your situation, and they dont know you.
2006-08-15 12:16:03
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answered by Camille 2
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You need to sit down with your parents and have a long talk. The one thing that if for sure is whats done is done and know you have to be responsible and take care of it. Your going to need to go to the Dr. And your parents are going to be disappointed in you (but aren't you already) but they are going to be there for you and help you make all the right choices. There are lots of people out there who want to adopt. Or your Dr. might advise you not to have the baby because of the health risks. Or you can have the baby and sacrifice your childhood.
If you can't go to your parents find your local planed parenthood and ask a counselor to help you. Maybe they can help you talk with your parents and recommend options for your situation. But PLEASE ask for help from a professional.
2006-08-15 12:40:30
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answered by mrs.moogie 2
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For the simple fact that you're 11. If it's still early I would consider an abortion - your body is far from developed and you risk having a difficult pregnancy. Planned parenthood is a good place to start, the site below is also helpful - good luck dear and god bless you- Don't think that your life is over because it's not, just learn and grow from this experience and whatever you decide make sure you're not in this predicament again until you're married or an adult with a good job, your own place, and in a stable long term relationship
2006-08-15 12:21:28
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answered by dee dee 2
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Pregnant? What? Are you serious? You're too young. Oh hell, go talk to your parents. This is a really big step. You know this is a life and death situation. You are just too young to handle that right now. Besides, you have no business having sex. What the hell were you thinking?
2006-08-15 12:16:43
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answered by Diabla 6
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Well. Take vitamins. The baby will suck all of the nutrients out of your body since you are still growing. So losing all of your teeth is a possiblility. Or at least they are probably going to rot. (I have a friend who this happened to. She had dentures at 13. So it's a fact.)
And yes, you may have an extremely high risk birth, risking your own life.
I hope that this is a joke. If not you need to talk to your parent(s). Immediately. Or planned parenthood. Before you get seriously ill.
2006-08-15 12:14:55
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answered by IMHO 6
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