Ermmm. Last time i asked only girls but only 14 of them have answered, but the thing is i need much more of them. Can U help me please? WHY AM I SCARED OF THE IDEA OF HAVING SEX, AND IS IT NORMAL?
2006-08-15 11:44:46 · 21 answers · asked by Angel From The Hell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The trouble is i dont think guys will appreciate it.
2006-08-15 11:52:00 · update #1
sex is natural....sex is good....not every does it..but everybody should
sex is natural...sex if fun...sex is best when it's one on one!!!
2006-08-15 11:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a girl it is pretty normal to be scared as the pain of having sex first time worries you and then there is emotional attachment to the first guy you have sex with. So i think all the factors make a girl scared
2006-08-15 18:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Burhan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex, your not missing anything. A girl can't have a good organism until she is at least 18 and up. With so many diseases out there why chance it. If a guy is trying to get it, that's normal because that's all a man thinks about. Don't be pressured, into it. Tell him I don't think I want to go out with a slut. And I'm thinking very seriously that your not the one for me, if that's all you want. Hold your ground. Thats all a girl has is her dignity,
2006-08-15 18:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally normal. I am 22 years old and have been abused and still am a virgin and am nevous to have sex. Sex is going to be a new thing and new things are always scary but i hear after you do it the first time it's pretty addicting so make sure your first time is with someone you trust and can take it slow with u. And use protection too!!
2006-08-15 18:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by jessicablock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because losing your virginity is a really big decision. One of the biggest ones you will ever make and not something you can ever take back. You can undo it once it is done. It is a very precious gift and should only be given to a very deserving man (preferably your husband). That and the 1st time hurt like crap.
2006-08-15 18:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, if you are young I think that would be normal. For me it was like fear and excitement rolled into one. If you want to get this over with why don't you target an older gentle guy for a one night stand someone who won't push you to hard and will be gone in the morning...
2006-08-15 18:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be scared, but you should be able to embrace it and hold back from it. if you want to have sex with everyone you know, wait untill you die and have your husband anc children watching u in bed with another man. sex is a great gift, but it should be used wisely. and if you are scared of it, its only because when you finally find that person that you're meant to have it with, its gonna be a blast :P
2006-08-15 18:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by waffleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal to be afraid of something that you have never done, if you are not comfortable with the idea, don't push yourself, when the time is right you will know it. You are fine, this is normal.
2006-08-15 18:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and i understand,i believe it's because your truly not ready and maybe someone may be pressuring you to do it.You should never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.It's your body,only you will know when your ready to take the next step.Good luck.
2006-08-15 18:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the way girls dress up and compare with the way men normally dress...
Guyz are animals and we are wild some what ..sex is a wild ting.. always.
Rest is easy..
2006-08-15 19:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by I Need Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Wait until you are you are married if that will make it better, many people do and they are glad they waited. There is no reason that you need to get over it right now. If you can wait, why not?
2006-08-15 18:50:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋