Do you think a relationship would work with you and a guy that has been married twice?
2006-08-15 11:36:06 · 18 answers · asked by prtybrneyez1081 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, I do, because a marriage takes two people. The problem wasn't just him. He didn't cause it. But, I have to admit I'd be really leary. My therapist told me once that divorce doesn't ever really solve anything; the problems will follow you into your next relationship. Better to solve your part of the problems and try to make it work. In his case, does he own up to his part in it? Want to make sure it doesn't happen again? If so, I'd definitely give him a chance. We're human, and we make mistakes. Hopefully we learn from them.
2006-08-15 11:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know it can I am married to a younger man who was previously married twice and was raising two children alone.
We have now been together a total of 16 years dating and marriage.
I was married before and had two children I now have 5 grandchildren who call him grandpa and he loves it.
2006-08-15 11:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by bonita_cooper2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dated a guy that was married twice and I had second thoughts about going out w/him for that very reason. you have to consider the reasons of why the marriages didn't work out for him. if you can deal w/the baggage he has had then it's possible to have that relationship. For me, I chose to opt out.
2006-08-15 11:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you have been married twice there is a reason it didn't work both times, getting married again would only be fooling eachother and yourselves.
2006-08-15 11:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by hopelovesu2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that can be answered on an individual basis. If the guy & female get alone well, it's a possiblity that marriage might be on the agenda in time.
2006-08-15 11:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes as long as the 2 ppl love eachother and the 2 other wives are out of the love picture it should be fine now if he has kids from the two wives it might not work out if the kids dont like u or the mothers dont like the way the person treats their kids
2006-08-15 11:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on why the previous 2 marriages failed.... and how does he speak of his previous wives? There's alot more to find out about the story than just being married and divorced 2 times!
2006-08-15 11:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think it would be fine, but I would need to know why the other two marriages failed. If he had cheated in them, there is no way I would take the chance. If there were other issues involved which would not be in our lives, then why not?
2006-08-15 11:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in love with a guy then i would try to make it work u cant judge a person by their past
2006-08-15 11:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why it wouldn't. If the circumstances in which he divorced twice had nothing to do with him being unfaithful or something of that sort, then it should be ok.
2006-08-15 11:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by bracygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋