Am i bi???

Question

HI i am 13, i am a girl and i have a boyfriend. First of all i dont want to have sex with a girl or a relationship. I love boys, but now i am scared i am bi, because a couple i looked at porn, and now i am affraid that i am bi becasue i looked at wemen naked, i really did not like it, So a couple days ago i was looking on the web for quizzes, i took about 5 or 6 and they all said i was straight. But scence i have been worring about the is bi stuff i am forcing my self to look at girl and then i think i am bi even more and i get all horny. PLEASE HELP ME I HAVE BEEN CRYING FOR THE LAST COUPLE OF DAYS ABOUT THIS I TOLD MY MOM AND SHE TOLD ME I AM CRAZY.... PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!! :-(

Answer 1

Mmkay....I watch porn with women in it. Why would I want to watch all-male porn? That makes no sense. I'm straight, I like men, I like sex, therefore, I watch porn that involves a man and a woman. Heterosexual sex, darling. Now stop stressing. And considering that you're 13...maybe you shouldn't be LOOKING at porn? Eh?

Answer 2

You are a very young human being first and foremost, who is finding out about sex and arousal..no big deal! Many people male and female have arousal when looking at someone of the same sex..yet they prefer to have sex with the opposite sex. Nothing wrong with that you know..it is just sex and it is mean';t to be enjoyed.
Wait until you are older to decide whether or not you are bi, by then this phase of curiosity may have passed by and be nothing but a funny memory. It is too soon to tell how your preferences are love. If you do indeed turn out to be bi then that is ok and not anything to be ashamed of, lucky you gets the best of both worlds! Engage in sexual activity only when you feel you are ready and do not be pressured by anyone or anything.
Curiosity is normal, so is experimentation. You're mom is right, just because you have this type of reaction doesn't mean you are bi, you will become aroused by all kinds of things as time passes and you will find yourself becoming comfortable with that. You are young and this is still new to you so just cruise along and do not read too much into it. Good on you for talking to your mom, that is great, you're parents love you the most in this world and they are the best people to talk to about this as well. Open communication is a great way to avoid problems.


Hope this helps.

craig - Naturopath

Answer 3

If you were bi, you would want to kiss girls and so forth...don't feed these thoughts by dwelling on it. Don't watch any porn or do anything that would make you think about girls. It's a pretty natural thing you are going thru, but don't worry, if you don't feed it you will be fine. Keep your mine on positive things.

Answer 4

you are 13. that is the answer to this problem. it is fine for you to explore or wonder or whatever, but you probably aren't automatically bi if you like naked women. that realization is much deeper than you think you might be type stuff.

Answer 5

Most women look at other women if for no other reason than to compare. Your problem is not that you are bi, your problem is you worry too much. As the young people say, "chill out."
Vaya con DIOS

Answer 6

you arent bi its not odd for a girl to look at another girls body. stop worrying relax a little and enjoy watching porn, although you are a little young!

Answer 7

I don't think you're bi just because you watched porn. You shoudldn't stress yourself out about it.

Answer 8

I feel that you are just growing up and experiencing different feelings and emotions as most preteen and teenagers do. Take your time to grow. Don't let others define who or what you are. you have plenty of time for that.

Answer 9

HI no you are not carzy, you are just curious, there is nothing wrong with looking at a girl!!!!!! you are not gay or bi, you are STRAIGHT!!!

Answer 10

I'd just calm down if I were you. Listen to some Iron and Wine, that'll calm you down to near death.