how do you tell if a women is faking a pregnacy?

Question

my girlfriend has used a pregnacy scare on me this is not the first time but this time she actual played like she was getting an abortion and she looked up all the information and said she was going to ny to get the abortion pill she came back then she says that its done and that the next couple days she was going to have heavy bleeding like her period i wanted to go with her but she said no a week or two later the relationship goes south and she says that she didn't get the abortion and that she was going to have twins can she tell what shes having at only 5weeks and i said i'll be there at the the birth and she says shes going to have it in ny with her aunt i'm at a losses i want to be a man and handle my dutys to take care of the kids but i don't know i have way to much conflicting info to belieave her i know the only way to be shore is to wait 9 months and find out but i don't want to get my hopes up could she be using this to get my atention to try to keep me from leaveing helppls

she sent me this text and said that she wanted to make sure i loved her for her and not the kids before she told me she didn't get the abortion even though she was going through the whole water works about having a hole in side her now and needing to talk to a priest about it

Answer 1

First of you can not tell if your having twins until about 4 to 5 months. You don't have to wait until she's 9 months it shows around 3 months and she will be moody, vomiting, or just go www.babyzone.com and can help you a bit more. Your girl trying to corner you, don't have sex with her with out protection and even than don't have sex with her.

Answer 2

This chick is being very unfair and you don't deserve that. You sound like a very considerate young man and she plays on your emotions. The fact that she knows if she were pregnant you would be there. (fragment sentence) Tell her to go right ahead and do what ever she wants and call you in 9 months. Pretend like your not so concerned I bet she'll straighten up and act right then. I'm not sure about 5 weeks but yes in 12. She seems to be a big liar though Too much drama. You might just better get out this relationship while you can, imagine what will happen if she ever does get pregnant by you. You'll have to deal with this drama mama for the rest of you entire life. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Yeah she's definantly lying, she cant tell yet if she's having twins, and she is probably never even was pregnant, unless you two were trying. If she was pregnant, she would be scared, and wanted you there, for the "'abortion' pill" she would have wanted you there, for the doctors visit too. If she is pregnant, it's not yours, and someone else has been there for her. I'm almost possitive. So, dont even think twice about it. She either watns the attention from you, or the support. Or she's trying to be with you again.
If you tell her, that you're fine with whatever disciion she makes, and that you're there if she needs you, but dont talk to her, she will be 'pregnant', and 'aborted' on and off, it is a game with her, to see how much she can have a hold on you and your emotions.

no worries, I know people like that, and they do the same thing all the time... It's attention, and it's emotionally disturbance, when you lie about a possible life, and effecting someone's life because of it, your emotionally disturbed.

Answer 4

A. Buy your own pregnancy test and make her pee on the strip while you are sure that she doesn't have any doctored pee. Try inviting her to your place and then send her to your bathroom. If she won't do it, then you have your answer.

B. Take her to a doctor, that you pick, and insist that she get a pregnancy test. You can tell the doctor that prenatal care is so important; you need to find out when she got pregnant so you can care for her properly. If she won't go to the doctor’s office then you have your answer.

If she refuses to take a test to prove her pregnancy then she is lying about it. Even if she later turns out to be pregnant it might not be yours. If she takes a test under controlled conditions then the results will be pretty clear. A home test is not 100% accurate, so you should follow it up with a doctor's visit. If she is really not pregnant though she probably won't go through with it.

If she does go to the doctors then ask them for advice on treating a hysterical pregnancy. Maybe you can get her committed to the mental ward. It would serve her right, if she is lying.

After you know the results then re-evaluate your relationship. Do you really want to be with a girl that is using such a cheap trick to try and hold you to the relationship? Do you really want to be with a liar?

Answer 5

Wow, okay first do you remember the last time you had intercourse, and ask her when her due date is, figure it up or have someone help you figure it out. Do you know if for sure she has even see a doctor. It sounds like a attention getter, really i know you don't want to hear this but the only best way to do it is wait the 9th months and see if two babies come out or any at that. She could be faking alot do. Then get ahold of someone for a paternity test after babies are born that is about the only way you are going to know for sure. Sounds like girlfriend has a lot of issues and is unhappy with her life.

Answer 6

First.
You and she have got yourself in to fine mess.
Second .
If the girl is prone to lying about it in the first place she will lie and lie again.

The girl must either be very insecure or devious or both

TWINS
Or sex of baby at 5 weeks

Sorry B...S...T

She needs professional counselling

If you are not ready for parenthood keep it in your trousers sweety

You need some sort of guidance or counselling as well


Or get reliable birth control and make sure YOU use it.

Personally I would get a more caring partner

Trust has gone out the window

You are entitled to proof and ask for it.

You deserve better than that

As a woman I think it is a low act.

Emotional blackmail can screw your life too much.

It will never go away if you do not act now to address the the problem

Have one son whose health has failed partly due to his 2 exes

one for 16yrs with 15 yrld son

one of 6yrs with son still trying it on[Not 100% sure]

He has requested D.N.A but she wont let it happen.

He has been there and supported my grandson for all of those six years

Answer 7

chances are some girls play tricks on men but if your both mature, why would anyone lie about being pregnant. The only real way to tell is go get a blood test. Do not use thosepregnancy sticks even though they are 99 percent accuratte. Go get a blood test and if that is postive she is pregnant. If she is at a early stage like 5 weeks you cannot possibly know the sex. Thats impossible. : ) good luck and wish you well. Twins wow!

Answer 8

Did she have her period? Did you see a pregnancy test. If she is early enough to take the abortion pill then it is way to early to tell if she is having twins. I get the feeling your girl has been lying all along. Abortions are very emotional and so is pregnancy for that matter. Most girls are devastated to find out they are pregnant and agonize over their decision. If they don't then that is not the type of girl you want to be with or even know. That's just heartless and sick

Answer 9

You can't tell at 5 weeks. Make her take a pregnancy test in front of you. If she wont, maybe get her aunt involved. You deserve to know one way or the other. But she seems so back and forth and messed up, I'd highly doubt that she's actually pregnant. Cut your losses and walk away. She's more trouble than she's worth.

Answer 10

Tell her you want to watch her pee in a cup. Test the urine in the cup. Use this relationship to grow up. Figure out how to be responsibly concerned about her. Start saving your money. Talk about the future, what you want to do. how you can get there.
Join the Guard to protect her and the babies from evil people in the world. Use the educational benefits to get a degree.
If she will not pee for you it could be a deal breaker or you could spend the money it takes to get a drug testing place to get a sample which would be a waste of money you could spend on the baby.