my boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex. but i think i`m not ready for it. what do i do.
2006-08-15 10:47:26 · 19 answers · asked by irene k 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
HELLO, say NO
2006-08-15 10:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if your not ready then don't do it. Talk to him and tell him that he is not the problem but your just not ready to get into something your not ready to handle. It's best to be honest, if he doesn't except your answer then he's not the right guy anyway..But if he's tired of waiting be prepared to get dumped, truthfully most guys hate to wait a long time.
2006-08-15 18:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sexygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT do it. Wait until ur ready. If he pressures you, he cares more about the sex than ur feelings. And yes it hurts. Bad. When I did it for the first time, my mother knew. It changes u. Just wait.
2006-08-15 17:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nici 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie regardless of whether it hurts or not - if you aren't ready don't do it - it's like this "thing" everbody is in a hurry to get out of the way - most people who didn't wait will tell you they wish they did - don't just do it to do it you will regret it - and yes it is uncomfortable the first time and you prob won't enjoy it and will end up regretting it - you only loose your virginity once and only when you are older will you realize it is a gift -
2006-08-15 17:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are over 18 and an adult then have sex. Until then DO NOT HAVE SEX, you will risk the chance of having baby, STDs or AIDS being that you must be a minor. Tell him you do not want any babies, STDS or AIDS that you will wait till you are a grown woman to have sex.
2006-08-15 17:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he really wants to be with yoyu then he'll wait until your ready. you dont have to have sex right away if sum1 is pressuring you. and sex does hurt wen its ur first time, but dont get into sex until u think ur ready. okay so dont worry u dont have to do it if u dont want to.
2006-08-15 17:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mz. Kriminal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This isn't something you should rush or be pressured to do. I bet he is saying stuff like;" This will only make our relationship stronger." Maybe this one," If you love me you will do this." Listen to your heart and not his head. Good Luck
2006-08-15 17:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tanker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his *** and find a guy that won't pressure you,relationships should not be about sex.If you don't dump him just tell him NO,who knows after he gets it from you he might just dump you,so be careful.
2006-08-15 18:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by PinkOrchid 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it with condom not it's not bad and yes hurt a bit but while you are having, but its makes u feel relax , but if u feel that ur not ready that means your hormones it's not horney . so it your mind
2006-08-15 18:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it only hurts the first time
but after that it feels soooo good
2006-08-15 20:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by BleedingKiwi™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...if you arent ready then dont, but i recommend giving it a try. just be safe about it
2006-08-15 19:41:06 · answer #11 · answered by Jeff L. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋