Who was your first gay experience with? Was a best friend or a flirtatious stranger? Did you love this person? Do you think it's better to be with someone older and more experienced for the first time, younger, or someone in the same boat as you?
Myself. It was with a friend whom understood my situation and wanted to "help" me fulfill my curiosity. No I didn’t love this person, and she was 30 while I was around 20. So experienced was the way for me. lmao. She turned me out! As where a not so experienced female would have made me reconsider being gay.... or changing my lifestyle...
2006-08-15 10:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The girl who would become my wife, after e-mailing and calling and teasing each other for a year. (Our relationship was long-distance for a very long time--her in NYC and me in Orlando.)
It's actually sort of funny--NOW! She was 18, I was 19, and I was very nervous. I really had it all built up in my mind. Of course, since we lived far away from each other and I lived at home and she had a roommate, it took lots of planning to make it happen anyway. I flew up to NYC knowing that this time, it was going to really happen. I didn't know what she'd think of my body, and I had no experience with other women, and she did. I insisted on keeping it pitch-black in the room--no lights at *all*. And it was so awful!!!!
Then she stormed out of the room and I put on Nirvana's "Nevermind," really loud, so I could cry and not have her hear it. All kinds of bad things ran through my mind. The lights were on. She came in to try and console me. Then the consoling turned into...um, more! It was so, so, so much better. I still can't hear the song "Drain You" without blushing!
We think of the first time as "the practice session." :-)
2006-08-15 10:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My first experience was with an older woman as I was just 25. Know that I'm 45 I prefer younger women between 30 and 40.
2006-08-18 08:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by One Hand One Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had many encounters with girls..but I would say my actual experience that went ALL the way happened last month..I met her on the phone through (phone dating line) and we conversed every now and again..Until we lost contact..then a couple months ago she called me and we started talking again..
This time we met up and the face did not match the voice that made me wet everytime we talked..but nonetheless I wanted to F*ck her...It was an intense wanting and I could tell that she felt the same way...
Let's just say... my first experience happened in a park....we don't talk now though..but I will remember this for the rest of my life!
2006-08-15 11:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by quizzed 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even know I was curious until a good friend of mine needed a place to stay. I was seventeen and she was sixteen. She was having problems at home and stayed with me. We had to share a bed, but we didn't care. One night, I was hugging her and she started crying. It was the most natural thing in the world to kiss her tears away. After that, it just happened. I loved her, but not in the forever kind of way. Neither of us had ever had any gay experiences before that.
2006-08-17 19:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mama23Girls 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whilst i became approximately 5 or 6 I used to masterbate with my associates who have been additionally females. and we would we would journey eachother with our clothing on. whilst i became interior the third or fourth grade I had my first gf. Now i'm a 13 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old woman and surprisingly i've got grown out of this lesbian lust. i'm now a hundred% straight away...
2016-11-04 21:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first expirience was with a girl who was a good friend of mine and she was 2 years younger than me... but she had a hell of alot more expirience than me...(dont ask)... I knew i liked girls but it sealed the deal... I never had sex with a man, and i think I never will(knock on wood)....
I loved her as a friend and I wanted to continue seeing her, but it just didnt happen... We dont really talk anymore, but we're still friends....
...and I think its better to have your first expirience with someone who IS expirienced because two rookies have no clue what they're doing, no matter how much you think you know...
2006-08-15 11:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 22 and dated this guy for a year. He later became a flake, did porn and drugs and now has Hiv. It was very sobering and now im happy I am partnered to the same guy for years. I look back at all the crap I put up with, cheating, lying, and wondered how I ever put up with it.
2006-08-18 04:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i seduced my friend with str8 porn.
i was 20 -im now 40 -its been a long time.
and he is str8 -so i didnt get far with him.
i put on some porno and talked him into jerking off- so we are side by side jerking off - ssoo hot- and he is
cute too.
and so i just went down and put my lips to his cock.
he did resist - but i was able to smooth talk him right into it.
i told him that i could make him *** and no one had to know about it.
i'll never forget it - he has a huge cock too and i choked on it- but i did it and i did a great job.
and as he came i licked that sensitive spot on the head - you know that spot - and he came on his belly
he is so cute - but he is str8 - he made me promise never to tell anyone about it.
to this day he is polite and respectfull twards me. He shakes my hand as though we are good friends
- i love him for that.
2006-08-15 12:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by danlow202 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
How did she taste?
2006-08-15 11:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
My dad , I was 8 or 9.
2006-08-15 10:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 2⤊ 11⤋