Ok,I have a friend whos 16 and pregnant.Her parents found a note asking for cute baby names and thought it was mine.I said it was so she wouldnt get in trouble.Im 14 and now her mom doesnt like me anymore cause she thinks im going to get her daughter in trouble.She said her daughter aint like that but im the one whos not like that.She said shes going to tell my mom.What should I do??
2006-08-15 10:31:51 · 30 answers · asked by shelly s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You need to tell the truth. You can't hide your friend's secret forever. Your friend needs to be honest about her situation and you need to tell everyone you aren't pregnant.
2006-08-15 10:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your friend needs to tell the truth. Whats she going to say when her belly becomes a watermelon and yours is still flat??? Lying in the first place was just stupid. I wouldn't say 16 is wayyyy too young, but yes it is young. Lots of girls are able to raise a baby at that age though, with parents support of course. The only thing that can be done know is for your friend to fess up or tell your mother before her mother has a chance. Tell your mother the truth, tell her you will take a pregnancy test if she doesn't believe you. You have no reason to lie for your "friend" about this.
2006-08-15 17:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the truth about your friend. You really don't want to get into trouble for something like this. You didn't do anything wrong and your friend needs to tell her parents she's pregnant. The truth is going to come out sometime so it might as well be now rather than dragging this out and letting it become an even bigger thing.
Good luck.
2006-08-15 17:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well friendship is very important to me and a lot of my friends parents think I am bad because I take up for some of the dumb **** they have done. Just talk to your mom about it cuz chances are your mom will understand((I mean..shes had friends in high school)) so just talk to her and tell her the truth, that way you wont get in trouble but your friends secret will be kept hidden.
2006-08-15 17:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother this story so she will see it coming and she can then tell the other parent to check her own backyard. There is nothing worse than a parent finding out misinformation from another person and then you won't look so hot trying to defend yourself. Tell her before her mother does and be prepared to answer questions from your mother about your sex life since you have a friend that is pregnate,your parents will want to make sure you will not be in the same situation. If you are, please be honest withi them. Good Luck !
2006-08-15 18:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your parents before this other parent does. That way your parents won't be hit with a ton of bricks. You will have to tell your parents that it is your friend that is pregnant. It may be a breach of her trust, but her parents ARE going to find out eventually!! The main point is that you don't want your parents to distrust you- if you come clean first you won't have nearly as much explaining to do later.
2006-08-15 17:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by dolphin mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell your mom whats going on.She'll be happy your taking up for your friend.If she doesn't believe you have her talk to your friend and tell your friend to be honest with your mom.If your friend hasn't seen a docor maybe your mom can take her somewhere to make sure the baby is ok.I dont think you should be the one to tell her mom.Have her tell her or maybe have your mom talk with her mom.Get things right before the whole town thinks your 14 and pregnant,or you'll end up with a bad reputation.Good luck!!!!
2006-08-15 17:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clear your good name. Because none can hide their pregnancy forever, you might as well let your mom know the truth first. Tell her u aren't pregnant. Tell her your friend is. When the tummies start rounding, your friends mom will feel extremely stupid for the misjudgment of ur character.
2006-08-15 17:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by Nici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friends mom that it wasnt ur note tell her it was one of ur friends notes and u were asking her what u should tell ur friend and then talk to ur friend that thinks she is pg and tell her that she REALLY needs to tell her mom b4 its too late, because ur friend will need to go to the doctor and get checked out to make sure the baby will be healthy and most free clinics dont do check ups like that so let ur friend know she needs to see a doc
2006-08-15 17:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by kit kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell you mom what is going on and be honest that is the best way to get through your teenage liefe. As far as you friend she is going to have to tell her mom cause in a couple of month she will be showing. then her mom will know that you are not lieing
2006-08-15 17:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by helpif i can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom the truth and you only did it to cover up for her. Yes she is too young to be having a baby...she is just a baby herself...not a grown woman.
2006-08-15 17:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋