what's wrong with me?I'm that worthless?

Question

For about awhile I feel worthless and ugly.I look at my reflection and see my flaws and start to cry.I'm only 14 yet I feel like I can't handle life.Highschool will be starting soon I don't even want to love.I feel so ugly.I hate going out I don't wanna face the public.I feel so fat also.I been so cranky and have werid eating patterns I can't sleep and sometimes over eat or drink water all day or coke.What's wrong with me I have angry outbursts and scream and cry .I even self harm sometimes.WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME!!!!!!!!!I don't want a shrink so don't suggest.Do I have bi polar disorder(sp?) or whatever I took a quiz and it said I was.What are the side effects of exterme depression.My moods keep on going up and down what's wrong.Plz no mean comments

thanks :(! so far

Answer 1

YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHERE DID YOU GET IDEA LIKE THAT???
You should learn how to love and respect urself if you want people to respect you!! High school is about to start for you and trust me you WON'T survive there is you'll feel that way about urself. I know what I'm saying because I'm in high school ( I'll be in 10th grade this year).Learn to feel good about urself. Nobody is perfect. Every time u feel depressed go something funny. Like listen to music,movies ( comedies are the great way to relax) etc,....learn how to control urself and calm urself down. Think about your good side. There's something good in EVERYBODY.. Keep urself busy all the time and guess what? High school is about to start and don't you wanna look good?
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Answer 2

1. It a disease with teens, they all magnify things.
2. Everyone going into High School is anxious, you'll love it after two weeks, give it time, just finding your way around the building will distract you.
3. Not everyone there will look great, relax. Focus on your studies and try your very best to get the very best grades. That alone will give you self confidence.
4. If after two week you don't feel better and you really think you have mood problems...talk to your doctor. You may need something, but then again not. You will have to write it down...be specific.
5. You are NOT alone so don't think of yourself as weird.
Best of Luck....

Answer 3

You sound a lot like me when I was just going into high school. I know its hard, but you have to go see a therapist or find some sort of counselor to talk to. Since school is starting soon, why not try and talk to the school nurse or school counselor? That way you won't have to go to a psych, but can possibly still get the help you need.

You can be so much happier than you are right now. You deserve to be so much happier than you are right now. After years of going through what you are going through, I was finally diagnosed with bipolar disorder and, after a lot of therapy and some medication, I feel a LOT better now.

Please get help - or at least someone to talk to. You can do it and you need to do it! Good luck.

Answer 4

The thing is that you are too insucure about yourself. What you need to do is take a look at the good things in life, family, friends, and remember that there is always someone that loves you... god. You can change things, if you feel like you are fat for example, dont just sit there, get up and do something about it. You will feel alot better about yourself. Remember that EVERYONE lookes at the bad stuff about them and not at the good, everone is critical of themselves. You also need to love, love is a amazing, love your self, god, family and friends it will make you feel so much better. Take this advise from someone who has been in your position before. All you need to do is stop thinking of all that bad stuff and just live life!
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Answer 5

Hey sweetie, i'm in Glasgow, Scotland, UK. I went through the exact same thing as you are and i actually used to walk to school 3 and 4 times and home again to get changed cos i was a paranoid android. i thought i was uncool and ugly and unpopular! It wasn't till years later that i was told by everyone i meet that they all loved me and was envious of ME! What is that about??? i could have been doing with knowing that then! Hey ho... my point is honey, you are a good person and that is what matters! think karma! Life is as good as you make it and it's now up to you to take that bull by the horns and think 'i'm gonna fly'! you can do it and brilliantly! have faith in yourself and really go for it! your only up and down because of your hormones so as long as you know that you are then 'in control'. you go girl and let me know how you are getting on! if you need a kick up the bum or an online perk up let me know! now go and enjoy high school and remember that 80% of the kids you are starting with are feeling the same way and some probably worse! look out for those people that are getting bullied and help them by sticking up to those idiots and get yourself known as a good person to be around. make friends and laugh laugh laugh! that's a great tonic! .. hey i'm blethering on! sorry... take care honey! be good and enjoy every moment! x

Answer 6

Partly normal for a teenager. But, you do need to talk to a parent, pastor, or counselor, and get some objective answers. Harming yourself is not normal. Usually a sign of internalized pain or guilt, or just plain wanting attention. You need to look forward to school starting. This is an opportunity to improve yourself and develop future interests. Also, talk to your school counselor, or even a trusted teacher.

You are very valuable, and God would not have made you, had He no plan for your life!

Answer 7

even thought you said no psychologist/ shrink thing....i'd still suggest it. you NEED to talk to someone. i've struggled with body image and "depression" ever since i was in elementary school (i'll be a senior this year). you don't ever want to hold emotions in, especially ones like this. here are a few things to try to help make you feel better:

1. make a list of all your good qualities - keep this list posted in your locker or something, so everyday you'll see it and be reminded of your good points.

2. take up an active hobby. go jogging or biking everyday after school, or even join a school team (this will give you a chance to make awesome friends, who can show you what a wonderful person you are!)

3. try to eat normal. not eating, or having weird eating patterns can alter your emotions. sometimes they can even cause extreme ups and downs in moods.

4. DON'T RELY ON ONLINE QUIZZES (like the bi-polar thing) to tell you what is wrong with you. those things can't read your mind, get inside your head and tell you what's wrong.

5. in exchange with the good quality list - make one of your insecurities. then tear it up and get rid of it somehow, whether it's in a fire, or carried away by the ocean (if you live near one) or just thrown out. it'll make you fell good to get them out of you

if you ever need any help DON'T hesitate to email me. just click on my avatar and send me a little note, i'd love to help you in anyway possible. just remember that there are many people like you, no one's alone in this world.

good luck in high school. don't worry about the small things that come your way. if you ever need help, talk to someone.

Answer 8

Hey,

I think, I maybe can help! I was like that too, I would lock myself in my room and think all these crazy thoughts, then I let a guy control me which made it worse, i would cry, scream, hit myself, punch things etc...my anger continues but I hid it from everyone....when I started high school I wanted to be the coolest girl, but always compared myself to others, I even dated a football player who was much older then me but he messed me up even more, I ended up hanging out with th epeople I thought were nice but others thought were nerds, I ended up saying screw it I have to be happy, high school is hard and there is tons of pressure but you have to stick it out, it can be rough, you just need to find some friends who you trust and stick with them. There were times I did not want to go and skipped school, but it only made things worse......I did not know who I was and I guess in a way I am still finding that out......I ended up being brave and went to the doctor and got put on antidepressants, which helped so much, it has made me better understand myself. You really sound like a younger version of me, and if I could go back to your age I would in a second and I would change allot, I missed out on so much because I did what you did all the things you do and more.......it took apart of me away in a sense that I will never get back. I hated my looks and still hate things about myself but you learn to love them with help from others that love you. NOTHING is wrong with you, you just need to figure out what made you this way, what happened in your life that changed you, or what are you lacking, who has hurt you, look at all those and more to see where it has stemmed from......it will get better I promise, If I can help let me know.

Answer 9

The answer? Hormones. I totally felt like this when I was about 11-12. I seriously cried every day. I absolutely swear it will get better, very soon. My life has improved dramatically in just the last three years.

Answer 10

omg i almost started crying while i read this. its so sad. i mean like not that there is somethingw rong with u.
every one goes throught this "stage"
when u juts hate who u r, and how u look. u wonder and think about thinks in class and everywere u go.
it will all go away,
u just gotta believe in yourself. get some frends(if u dont have any good ones) im sure they would understand u. go out , do something atleast until these ideas r off of your mind
good luck