i dont know what to do anymore it hurts so bad just to not talk to her i cant take it anymore.i dont know. its like i cant tell her b-cuz i just dont know what she would say im scared. i just think i shuold probaly let her go but i love her so much~crying~like shes always on a time limit and sometimes i think shes lying and shes telling me that she is gonna hang out with all of these people from school and some of the people going with her are 18 year old guys and some bi and lezbian girls and its just scarey. were like so far apart im here in texas shes in alabama. it just hurts its like she dont even love me at all.she even told me it hurts to talk to me b-cuz were not together~crying bad~i just wish i could tell her. i just afraid that she is gonna cheat on me.and like know i dont know what to tell her anymore. i just got off the phone with her and i didnt really say anything cause thats when she told me.Im lez to so u can see why im scared. i just think shes better of over there.
2006-08-15 10:12:09 · 1 answers · asked by Bouncer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know how you feel. It's very scary to be in a LDR. I'm lucky enough to be in one with a guy that I trust completely.
However, in your case, it seems like you have a problem with lack of trust. What you have to ask yourself is if the relationship is worth the pain it's giving you. You might be wise to find someone local.
If the joy doesn't outweigh the pain (and LDRs ARE painful) then let her go. You'll heal. Find someone closer.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 23:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by nightevisions 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋