Is it wrong for me to be upset at my girlfriend if I feel she's letting her self be disrespected?????

Question

My girlfriend has a group of friends that I recently joined. Since before I joined they (all males) have a certain way of "joking", it seems like all of the jokes are about her being a hoe, a slut, or a hoochie. They'll Photoshop pictures to make it seem like she's doing sexual acts or in sluttish clothing. I'VE HADE ENOUGH but she doesn't care, I see at as disrespect towards her but she doesn’t. She says its something they've always done and she thinks its funny. She says since none of it is true (which it isn't) and their joking (which they probably are) its OK. Now she’s mad at me because I’m upset about the jokes and I feel she’s letting her self be disrespected. Am I wrong for being upset? Is it my place to say something to them when she won't?

Answer 1

I dont think she is the kinda girl youre looking for

Answer 2

Your not wrong at being upset because she's your gf and its guys doing it. I'm sure your view of it would be different if it was girl friends doing it so I think you have a little jealousy going on here. I had an ex once tell me that he felt my guy friends were disrespecting me. That made me very mad. Ive known my friends for a long time and they would never disrespect me. We do develop a way of being friends and its not my bf's place to say how that should be. Like I said, I'm sure if it was girls doing this you would find it funny. Your just jealous of the other guys in her life. Stop telling her she's being disrespected. I wanted to scratch his eyes out every time he would say it. If anything at least be honest and say your jealous of the friendships.

Answer 3

firstly....... have you ever lost YOUR strategies?? became into she rather "All That" to verify which you to no longer see what all rather is going on in her life how she's raised her little ones? a brilliant tip off would have been the ex on no account having to artwork, and then the 2nd tip off would have been to take a seem around. Seeing how they stay and how the youngsters are. For starters, you are able to no longer exchange human beings. and that i've got found out from my own experience, that as quickly as you bypass and initiate cleansing up, fixing and development for others, it continuously finally ends up undesirable. the residing house don't have been in that undesirable of shape first of all. in the event that they might't or won't freshen up in the back of themselves in the 1st place... they specific are not going to stop you, somewhat in the event that they do no longer would desire to pay you. they are going to shop you around as long as you will stay. they gained't run you off, notwithstanding in the event that they are depressing. rather, that's no longer love. that would desire to declare alot to you whilst she buys you "used" issues and don't subject to be sure if your hungry or what you may like. yet she specific is choosy approximately her and her little ones. it is purely incorrect. whilst your waiting to get out, you will. yet no longer till then, no remember what all people tells you.

Answer 4

its not wrong for you to be upset and if she doesnt make an attempt to understand where you coming from or at least limit the behavior then move on. Ask her how would she feel if she was in your posistion

Answer 5

Yes its wrong and yes i would be upset, but theres only 1 problem, if she doesnt care then she has no respect for herself cuz if she did then she wouldnt let people do that to her.

Answer 6

well she should stand up for her self and the self resoect that she has, now being upset at the girl friend for not taking a stand is wrong, you should re direct the anger at her friends

Answer 7

Your correct her friends ain't really friends. they are disrepecting her. She needs to tell them to stop or find new friends.