okay my sister is 2 yrs younger than me! She likes this guy named Ben who is 1 yr older than her! I like him 2! He never pays her attention but at church me and him are always playing together and just having fun! I can't stop thinking about him! Ughh what should i do?? This is complicated!
2006-08-15 10:06:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Since you and Ben are so close, maybe you could say something to him about the fact that sis likes him and find out what he has to say about it. If he doesn't, find a casual way to bring your sister to the subject, and discuss it. He may not have an attraction to either of you. Does he know you like him? It's kinda like a process of elimination.
2006-08-15 14:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My little brother had a crush on every single one of my female friends. Assuming you're somewhere between 12 & 16, you're going to have a crush on just about anyone.
Enjoy each other's company and go on as normal.
I'm willing to bet if you show interest in another guy, she'll be interested in him, too. Nothing you can do about it, so live.
2006-08-15 17:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it only seems complicated because you are very young and VERY immature. Apparentlly he likes you or is just playing around. It will all blow over very quickly, I imagine. Nothing complicated about it, dear. You should do nothing as there is really no situation going on here.
2006-08-15 17:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out, don't do anything, and someday when he is ready he'll make his choice, it may be niether of you but you certainly don't want to make waves with your sister, shes's forever your sister and that isn't worth giving up for a crush.
BTW age has nothing to do with love and soul mates.
2006-08-15 17:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are never worth risking your own sister's trust.
She's your sister!
2006-08-15 17:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by sherry001fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thin kyou should tell your sister how you feel to see if she is okay wih this. If she is go ahead if she isn't try to back away.
2006-08-15 17:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and your sister to have a 3-some, then he'll know which one he likes better
2006-08-15 17:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋