What's her problem?

Question

One of my old friends, which i know is two-faced is always talking about someone that i know when she's around me or something, and acting like she doesn't notice me. But sometimes i'll catch her staring at me from across the room or when we're standing up, she'll stand kinda close to me. What is up with this? She's a very confusing person, one day she's your friend; the next day she's talking about you behind your back.

Answer 1

she is a back stabbing jerk. i suggest you get a new friend. then you wont suffer so much.

Answer 2

Oh my God, I am having the same problem! Only with three people! I thought I was so alone....anyways, what I think is going on with you (and I....) is that your 'friend' doesn't really know what she wants. She likes you one day, then hates you the next. Also, and I think this is why it's happening to me, it may be because this girl is trying to get some information about you so that she can twist it and turn it while she talks to other people about you. My solution that problem would be to just stay the heck away from her. She's a loser and it sounds like she's got SERIOUS problems. You are way better off without her. I had to do that with the three annoying kids I know and it worked! They got scared of me because I wasn't talking to them, so now they stay away from me.

Answer 3

She has low self esteem so it makes her feel better to have control and to put others down-you know who you are-don't let her make you think any differently-her own insecurities are what feed her insensible behavior, the only thing you a can do is ignore it and petty her and be kind to her regardless-she wants you to get mad so she knows she has control. She will only act worse if you confront her and you certainly don't want to stoop to her level. Be super nice to her maybe she'll see things differently.

Answer 4

She is probably insecure about herself. She may see you as peppy and happy all the time. And she wishes this to be true about herself. she may see you as a role model or may be very jealous of you. What you need to do is... Just ask her one day. Why are you staring at me? Be gentle but straight forwards!

Answer 5

no shes not your friend friends dont do that. shes insecure in herself and wants attention. the best thing you can do is say hi smile and walk away from her always gets two faced peoples backs up. hehe! find yourself some genuine friends who appreciate you for you.

Answer 6

Triangle friendships Never work when there is more than 2 girls to a group It is a bunch of gossip and he say she say non-sence. Cut every one off and stay to your self for a while.

Answer 7

she is an individual who had grown up seeking for attention.

she does these things either consciously or unconsciously to merit your attention. well, she did a good job, you are troubled with the way she acts.

it's up to you if you wanna keep friends with her, but make sure that if you do, you'll not end up hating each other.

Answer 8

! She is just trying to be popular! She wants everyone to like her but if she keeps that up no one will like her! My ex-friend did the same thing and no one likes her anymore because of it! Be nice to her still but you don't need her as a friend becase they'll just hurt you and backstabb you! Well goodluck!

Answer 9

she wants you and just wants your attention, regardless of whether it is negative or positive. if she talks bad about you, she is probably hoping that you lash out and say something. she just wants to get a word out of you, she probably wants you to look her in the eyes so that you can see how much she really likes you...just guessing (putting myself in her shoes);

yeah, she is definitely insecure. be careful with this one, she seems a bit unstable

Answer 10

is she 15?

Answer 11

maybe you should just tell this person that you dont have time in your life for someone like that.she needs to figure out who she is friends with and who shes not.