2006-08-15 09:59:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Just do it! Ask her to dinner! NOW!
2006-08-15 10:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you find it hard to ask girls out then my advice is get to know the girl first on a friendly level. Ask her questions and listen to what she has to say. Flirt with her a bit and try to make her laugh. You'll soon know if she likes the attention or not then you can make your move. If your pretty sure she likes you then just drop it in a conversation that you really like her and you would like to take her out sometime if she'll let you. Do it when you feel comfortable and relaxed enough to ask her though as it's more effective. Don't be scared, confidence is key. Only do it wen ure ready or it may not come out how u want it to. Good luck. x
2006-08-15 10:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some kind of plan in mind before you approach her. If you just say "You want to go out sometime?" she has no idea what to expect, and her answer won't be a commitment to go on a date with you. Ask something like "Would you like to go out Friday night to see*insert movie name here* with me?" Movies are always a safe first date as a teen. You don't have to make a lot of conversation, and you are guaranteed to have something to talk about after it's over. If she says she has plans, suggest another night. If she has plans for the next week, she's probably blowing you off. If she's truly busy, but interested, she'll suggest a time.
Smile when you talk, look her in the eye, not the chest. Be yourself.
2006-08-15 10:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not tell her you are scared. Chicks dig confident guys. Nonchalantly ask her to go out to a movie or dinner. If you approach her with a casual date plan it won't be very stressful for you to ask. When you are together on the date, see how your chemistry is. If it feels right, tell her you think she is beautiful and that you would like to go out again sometime. Take baby steps! You do not have to just come out and say, "HEY GO OUT WITH ME!?"
After a few outings you should be comfortable enough to ask about where the relationship is heading and if she would like to commence into a serious relationship.
2006-08-15 10:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by BSRNash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, as a girl, some of the cutest and best guys to go out with are the ones who are nervous to ask you out. One of my greatest relationships started as this (younger) guy let me know that he was totally infatuated with me. He was really sweet and smiled a lot and eventually wrote me a note with the lyrics of a song that reminded him of me - modified to fit our exact situation.
We really got to know each other on AIM, where he would flirt with me, etc.
I think a mistake too many guys make is acting too cool. That only makes us think that he just wants a girl, that we're not special - just one of many. That sucks! Be honest, be sweet, and make us feel special. We want to make guys adore us - if you can show that she is an amazing girl, she'll say yes!
Try to make her laugh or at least smile. If she can associate you with happiness, you're IN.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 10:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by am 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say something like gee I guess I shouldn't be talking to you your boyfriend will get mad then when she says I don't have a boyfriend ask her why I gorgeous girl like her doesn't have a man and when she blushes say I'd love to fill the position can I have the job?
2006-08-18 23:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by forgetmaenot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grin. Any advice you get here is going to out of your mind the minute you see her :)
The hardest part will be the asking...then the words will flow without thought.
As far as "The When" goes, I know this is not going to mean much right now, but when the time is right you will know it.
Good luck to you...and be yourself :)
2006-08-15 13:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like, i have a story that i started to write but i dont know how good it is. Then once you have her attention, tell her that there was a guy (describe yourself) and he wanted to ask out this girl but he didnt know how. Then pull out a flower and ask her if she could make your story a happy ending.
2006-08-15 10:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...be friends with her. If you're friends with her tht means you get to talk to her every now and then and the time can come any time...
Maybe it's when you talk about food you like or she like, ask her her fave place to eat out and make some meaningless casual comments like..."so you like to eat there? ABC resto? mmm...never been there, but would like to try it soon, you wanna join me?"
Or...when you talk about movie..."hey...superman is coming out...would you like to see it with me?"
After casual movies and lunch...then you can tell her if you really enjoy the time with her and ask her if you can take her for dinner and call it a date...
move slow...girls don't like quick action!
2006-08-15 10:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just suck it up and ask her out. That will show that you have balls enough to overcome feeling awkward.
As for when.....the early bird gets the worm. Don't wait too long or another guy will grab her up (I have learned this the hard way).
2006-08-15 10:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, you have to ask. Think of it this way. The chances of her asking you out is pretty slim.
Ask her when her full attention is on you.
2006-08-15 10:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by mo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋