We already went out and I guess I'm the only one still hook'd on him but he says he doesn't love me anymore but just loves having sex with me.I dont want to be in just a "sex relationship" because I'm not trying to just use my body, I'm more than that.He used to be so sweet and loving but now he only wants sex...we're a little bit over 4 years apart (meaning he's legal and I'm not) and he thinks that he can use that as a crutch.I hate this....
2006-08-15 09:58:35 · 14 answers · asked by Ms. Diva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would certainly let him go. You are worth too much to be treated this way.
2006-08-15 10:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Debs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question...
You said you didn't want just the sex; he just wants the sex.
Neither of you are equal in the relationship.
Find someone to be equally yoked with (in Spirit, Maturity, Goals), and move on.
You know what's best for you already.
As the old 60's tune went:
(Sung by Frank Sinatra...look it up!)
That's life, that's what all the people say
You're riding high in April, shot down in May
But I know I'm gonna change that tune
When I'm back on top, back on top in June.
I said that's life, and as funny as it may seem
Some people get their kicks stomping on a dream
But I don't let it, let it get me down
Cause this fine 'ole world, it keeps spinning around.
I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate
A poet, a pawn and a king
I've been up and down and over and out
And I know one thing.
Each time I find myself, flat on my face
I pick myself up and get back in the race.
That's life, I tell ya, I can't deny it
I thought of quitting baby
But my heart just ain't gonna buy it
And if I didn't think it was worth one single try
I'd jump right on a big bird and then I'd fly.
I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate
A poet, a pawn and a king
I've been up and down and over and out
And I know one thing
Each time I find myself laying flat on my face
I just pick myself up and get back in the race.
That's life
That's life and I can't deny it
Many times I thought of cutting out
But my heart won't buy it.
But if there's nothing shaking come this here July
I'm gonna roll myself up in a big ball and die.
My, My
[End]
No, don't roll up in a big ball and die :) Just understand that you need to be EQUAL with the man you will want as your life-long mate. Break off from this boy and seek a MAN who will treat you like the lady that you know you REALLY ARE! A little self-respect, young lady!
My best to you!
2006-08-15 10:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a clean break. He's already told you he's not interested in a relationship with you, that probably won't change. It's pretty clear that he using you until someone else comes along. You can either stop having sex with him or use him until someone else comes along. You may be "hooked on him" but the way you feel about how he is treating you won't improve. It's your body and your life don't let anyone mistreat you.
2006-08-15 10:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says you are too young for a relationship you are definitely too you to be having sex with him. Forget about him and find someone who will appreciate you. Next time you find the right guy don't have sex with him too soon. Sex should be something special plus you will be able to weed out the jerks who just want sex.
2006-08-15 14:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tara P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I reading right? He thinks sex is ok for you but you are too young for a relationship? Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? Seems like a sleaze to me! Besides, what he is doing is legally statutory rape and he could wind up in jail. You are worth more than he is willing to provide so don't sell yourself cheap.--move on and find somebody who appreciates who YOU are and try to hold off on the sex.
2006-08-15 10:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by losteph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well age is not the problem here he is just using you for sex and since youre to he needs to go find someone else to be with and you need to just date that means no sex a movie dinner those kind of things
2006-08-15 10:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by vinceweld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
4years isnt a long time, I think he is just using it for an excuse, be the bigger person and move on, your not commeted and you should be foolish! he will not change and thats okay, it will leave you open to find someone who thinks your just right, believe me I have been there, crying on the phone while he said your way to young for me and all the while taking me here and there, I wish someone would have wised me up more! move on!
2006-08-15 10:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by rayjenne24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is of age and your not then he has been using you , when he told you that you were to young for a relationship then your to young for sex , think about it , don't sell yourself so cheep to guys like him , your worth more then that
2006-08-15 10:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it or fall in love with a different guy. (The second option is better.)
2006-08-15 10:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either ditch him or enjoy the sex.
2006-08-15 10:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋