why do people have sex now dont say becasue two people love each other i meen why do they use toys and finger each other i personaly think they should do it the old fashion way just plane old when two people wanna have a baby or becasue they love each other. people say they use the toys and masturbate for pleasure but i think it is ok i meen i masturbate once in a while not every day like some people who use the toys and do sex with toys and fingering a licking
serious answers and thoughts
thanks
2006-08-15 09:54:09 · 4 answers · asked by swimeverlasting 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
alot of people do just for the pleasure of it. unfortunately our society tells us that just because it "feels good" its ok to do. In my opinion, society is wrong. we have lost our sense of morality. Not to say that i'm perfect. I have gone along with society at times too. but to justify wrongdoings is the devil's way at getting to people. Abortion, premarital sex, sex everywhere, abortion, homosexuality, etc. are only some of the things society says is ok. and more and more people are depressed, divorcing or seeking counseling, because they don't know whats right anymore.
2006-08-15 10:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously aren't in a serious relationship. I have been with my husband for almost 8 years. Although we don't use toys, we do all sorts of fun sexual things. When you are in love with the person you are with, you are up for anything.....well almost anything....lol! It shouldn't matter to you what other people do in their bedroom. What is good for you may not be what other people are doing. That is what makes it all personal. Some people need toys to reach their sexual peak. Some people masturbate as fourplay for their partner. I know what I like and my husband likes. You will find your niche too. You will probably be surprised at the kinds of things you will try once you find the person you feel most comfortable with and love. It isn't dirty. Sex is made "dirty" and "bad" in the media, but it shouldn't be that way. As long as you are being safe, go for it.
2006-08-15 17:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok serious answer here. plain old ordinary sex gets boring after a while. using toys and fingers etc keeps things interesting. and what's wrong with masturbating? if you don't masturbate, how the hell will you know how to tell your partner what feels good to you???
2006-08-15 17:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by shannon p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your writing is terrible and your thoughts incoherent.
All you need to do is decide what is right for you. Don't worry about what other people think. Develop your own values and don't judge others.
2006-08-15 17:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by leahhepler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋