Would you tell the truth to your bf/gf that you have been snooping around in his emails?
The reason I did this was because I foudn that I was being treated unfair in the relationship, me and boyfriend hardly ever go out anymore and whenever I ask him he always tells me "We'll see" or that he's not in the mood. He can have FUN with his friends, but it just seems he can't have fun with me. Through my snooping I also found a curious email, in which it seemed like someone was trying to hook him up with someone else.
I have been with my BF for over 7 years and have really been very unhappy lately as well. I have been meaning to tell him, but I can never find the right time to tell him, as soon as I plan to he always does something sweet on that day for me.......PLEASE GIVE ME UR THOUGHTS!!
2006-08-15 09:52:08 · 3 answers · asked by Debs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds complicated. You don't want to go accusing him of anything, you don't know the whole story, and even if your just asking, trust me he will see it as an aqusation.
Try just talking to him about how you feel, not mentioning the email, you've been together long enough for him to listen to you.
Another not so short term solution is try reading Men are from mars, women are from venus; John Gray- besides going on a bit, it really opens you eyes to how the other sex think. Try and get him to read it to. It has really helped my realtionships.
Good luck with everything. And try not to shout!
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2006-08-15 10:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by hugs4teds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one becaue you have been together for a long time, I think you should first confront him and tell him that you shouold spend more time together, and about the e-mails, you should not tell him at least yet, if you trust him and have been in Love then for sure he rejected that offer by that other girl.
2006-08-15 10:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by AD2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS YOUR LIFE SO TELL HIM
2006-08-15 10:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋