2006-08-15 09:51:34 · 44 answers · asked by J 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
yes the jerks do but once in a while a real nice guy comes around and loves you for you cocoa butter really helps eliminate them alot dont stress it no ones perfect
2006-08-15 09:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by LilMissYady 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My gosh people are cruel!!!!! I have small ones on my belly because I carried a child for 9 months at the age of 15,my man could care less.I hate them but I remind myself that if I didn't have them then my son wouldn't be here!!If a man says he thinks they are ugly then he's not the man for you and he is insensitive.Every woman who gets pregnant and gains any weight from being pregnant will get stretch marks,even if it's only one small one,it's a part of life and creating life.Men can get stretch marks too,if they work out and get bigger muscles,they will get them arround their arms or where ever they've gotten bigger.Real men that want love in their life could care less about stretch marks and care about the person and are attracted to the person.Most women get them by the time they are 40.No woman is immune from getting them.Sadly a lot of men say they're ugly.
2006-08-15 10:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by ~Misty.babydoll~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband finds nothing wrong with them. I am 120 lbs and have three kids! I go tanning so they are not as noticeable. And I don't wear tummy bearing shirts as that would look real tacky.
I think they are a badge of mother hood. And if you are not a mother and you lost weight then good for you! Find a man not a boy that will help also. Most real men will over look and not judge.
Not only that but you should know what kind of a guy he is before he should even see the stretch marks.
Good luck and hold your chin up high! Confidence is far more attractive then be insecure.
2006-08-15 09:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hollli 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Half the time they don't even see them. Don't worry about it. Stretch marks are natural and everyone (even models) have them. They are sometimes genetic and sometimes from gaining and losing weight quickly. There is no way to get rid of them. The creams sold (as well as other products) generally do not work.
You are beautiful! Don't worry about if a guy will get turned off by the marks, if he does then obviously he doesn't respect and love you enough to be with you.
2006-08-15 09:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by BSRNash 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My wife has stretch marks from carrying my two daughters. The stretch marks are her purple heart (so to speak).
I look at them as something to be proud of. She definitely earned them. No wimpy, 20-year-old without worries has stretch marks.
Do I find them sexy? No. But I love her all the more for what she did to get them.
2006-08-15 10:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Moose C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most women have stretchmarks, so men better get used to it. It is not just confined to women that used to be fat, women that have gone through pregnancy or women over 30, so those guys better get that through their thick skulls.
At puberty, the woman's body changes, her hips widens, her breasts grow, this can often cause stretchmarks, it is natural and part of the woman's body. Some men have stretchmarks too and they don't see us girls complaining!
Honestly, any guy that is shallow enough to have a problem with a few stretchmarks on a woman's body is really not worth much and is probably deeply insecure with their own bodies.
My husband has never had a problem with my stretchmarks, but then again, he is a real man who is secure with himself, unlike some of the male posters here. : )
2006-08-15 10:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
some may, would seem a lil too vain for my taste... stretch marks are a part of life, & if a guy cant handle stretch marks you dont need him anyways.
2006-08-15 10:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe.
If they only think stretch marks are from a rapid gain in weight. They can also come from pregnancy and growth spurts.
If you're talking about your husband or boyfriend, talk to him if you're insecure about it. If it's about a crush, just hide them for now.
2006-08-15 09:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If a guy is a pig yes. If they aren't all that big then i dont think they will do anything. Everyone has them even the guys its natural. If they love you it won't matter at all. But if they dont they just wanted booty in the first place. keep ya head up.
2006-08-15 10:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Salma Hayek once said that a guy told her that hers were stripes because she was a tiger. Most women have them for one reason or another, and some guys do for that matter. I wouldn't obsess about them.
2006-08-15 10:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by BB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋