I am a woman of age. Im not old but have been with the same man for 20 yrs and my husband does not satisfy me anymore but i love him very much what can i do to help him get me off . Only serious answers please
2006-08-15 09:44:47 · 17 answers · asked by the6ccat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get him to give you oral.
2006-08-15 09:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
20 years is a long time and maybe just maybe you guys have done the same things in the same positions for 20 years. When we are kids repetition helps us learn, but as we get older it bores us. I would try new things, read some books, go to your local sex store. There is nothing to be ashamed of going in those places. Me and my husband go once a month and even if we don't buy anything, for some reason just being in there makes me ready to go. My mother-in-law told me that when her and my father-in-law met they use to dance a lot. Well they are getting older and can't dance like they use to, but when they are alone they turn on their stereo and dance very slow and very close, holding each other and feeling each other. And that is the only time that she can get in the mood and get satisfied.
2006-08-15 10:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by touring a sex shop.
Definitely the vibrator, *********, and anal beads sound like a good start. Get some beads to put in your vagina or a small vibrator completely inside while he penetrates you. This makes it feel much more full and tingly.
2006-08-15 15:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Edward T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you both have to be in the mood and attracted to each other for it the work after that you can go from there. I suggest seeing a doctor, both of you. It starts with talking to one another.
2006-08-15 09:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by MR BIGG MAN 66 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a vibrator while making love, will get you both off most likely. Try different positions. If he doesn't eat you out, ask him to give it a try. Try fingering your clit or ask that he do it, while making love. Try nipple clips as tension to the nipples can sometimes make me *** without anything else.
2006-08-15 09:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lissa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just get yourself off before you have sex with him. That way you will be satisfied and he will really think he is doing it for you.
2006-08-15 10:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you "love him very much" tell him the truth,it's very important.
2006-08-15 09:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
pull the"bell cord" and the driver will stop,then you can get off safely
2006-08-15 09:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you need to spice up your sex life... go in a sex store together.. see what he would like.. and what you would like.. my husband and I love the komasutra book..
by sexual games .. they are great !... and talk to him..
2006-08-15 09:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try watching an adult video with him. Or try each other's fantasies. You could always try a sex therapist!! also try anal or oral sex!!
2006-08-15 09:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm does he give u oral sex!?!? he isnt good at that either?? and once u get going try anal sex .... i kno my girl cums alot faster when i put it there... it hurts her at first but then she wont let me stop...
2006-08-15 09:51:41 · answer #11 · answered by gspaypal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋