2006-08-15 09:40:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No one is a loser, ever! Maintain self esteem, be yourself, enjoy life. All other things, including dating, will come to you in time. You are probably a Gorgeous swan waiting to be discovered. Be patient and enjoy your friends, but do not be jealous of any of them if they date first.
2006-08-15 09:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't worry about it! Just becuase you are 13 and have not had a gf does NOT mean ur a loser. I know some very attractive and popular people at my high school who never had a gf/bf until college. Not because they were losers, but because they never met the right person. Do not just go for anyone just because ur desperately looking for someone to date, hold out for someone wonderful! I myself had my first bf when I was 15, and looking back on it, that relationship seems SOOO meaningless and almost comical compared to the relationships I have now. So please, do not stress over not having a gf! I know that ur friends probably are starting to get gfs, but trust me, in the future no one will think back to those relationships and be like "wow, those were the best times of my life." trust me! Don't worry, you will date and you will meet the right person, it just happens at different times for everyone! Now, if u said you were in your 20s, then that would be a different story...hahaha....but since you are 13, you have absolutely NOTHING to worry about!!
2006-08-15 09:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13 and your parents told you that you are old enough to date. What's your hurry? Make friends and enjoy your life. Maybe group dating when you are 15 or 16, but 13 is too young. Don't get me wrong. My sister started dating when she was 13 and for what? So she could fall in love with a boy that was too old for her in the first place? I realize that we all mature at different levels but your teens are only for a little while longer. Enjoy being a kid while you still can!
2006-08-15 09:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not a loser. Nothing wrong with not-having-dated at 13. Most kids aren't allowed to date until they are older anyway.
No, I don't dislike you.
2006-08-15 09:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! I'm fourteen and in the same situation, so don't feel bad. People who aren't jerks in the first place don't care whether you date or not. I'll admit, I hate being single as much as the next girl, but my true friends couldn't care less that I don't have a boyfriend.
2006-08-15 09:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by wickedphan506 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thirteen! Don't worry, you should just be getting started not finishing up. You've got the world at your feet, don't sell yourself short. Who knows where or who you'll be in five years.
2006-08-15 09:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, at your age, there aren't any girls that are worth it, anyway. Don't think you're a loser, just blow them off for another 5 years. do your own thing, and they'll be all over you.
2006-08-15 09:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh,? are yu in a hurry ???yur only 13?yu got a lot of time to go dude!yu are just getting some hair on yur chin!!!give it some time and enjoy what yu have now!!wait till yu have to work every day!!!now thats a bummer!!
2006-08-15 09:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u haven't try to ask a girl out,try to ask someone out,be yourself,tho,but u r not a loser,u'll get a date,maybe not as yet,but u'll see how fast u'll get a date
2006-08-15 09:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by BeGood. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till' ya go through puberty. If you act like that no-one will like you. Just go w/ the flow.
2006-08-15 09:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋