Even though you know that you and him aren't meant for each other, but still your heart whispers his name. We love each other, but somehow, also know that we can't be together because of our cultural differences, dealing with parents, in laws, religion. Or am I just making it hard by keep on holding to it. Love is so confusing.
2006-08-15 09:40:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love sure is confusing. It is ok to still love someone even if you have decided you can't be together for whatever reason. Maybe someday things will work out. And its easy to fall in the trap of nostalgia, i know I have. It is hard to let someone out of your heart because you don't chose who you love, it just happens. The best thing is to look at the situation as if you were meant to be you would be, and if not, then not. Try to let go a little at a time, fill your life up with other important things. Don't feel like you HAVE to forget, because if you love the person you probably never will forget him or her. And talk to this person about what you two are going through. Knowing that the other person hurts too will help you two through it, and hey, you never know maybe by talking about it you two can come to solutions about what is "keeping you apart"
Good luck, heart broken.
2006-08-15 09:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by rollarcoaster brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so unpredictable. I was in love with a guy from Ghana and talk about being different in everyway even down to the cooking and cleaning. His family didn't like me but that didn't stop us from wanting to be together but in the end we both were hurt because his mom shared a dream with him about him and I and after that it was over. I told him that he was a man and I'm a woman and if was going to let his mother dictate if we were going to be together or not then we don't need to be together and that was less than 2 months ago. I still love him deeply. He was my best friend and we shared everything but if I'm going to be the woman in his life then he had to trust me and know that I'd never hurt him in anyway and I guess he didn't have that trust. It's hard but you move on and you go thru to get to the Glory that God has for you. There is someone for everyone and you just have to be patient.
2006-08-15 09:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a love that was so deep that we were actually engaged and planning the wedding and then reality took place but to this day I still think of him...
We weren't meant to be together because of in laws and monetary reasons. I am married now to some one else, but will always remember that love.
Sometimes you just have to let go and carry on with your life in a different direction
2006-08-15 09:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Koozie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow the issues of love to confuse you, then it most certainly will. If there is no way for you both to work through your differences, then I would have to say that you need to get over this person. It's never easy because your heart and your head always says something different, but in time you will find it will be a little easier to come to terms with your emotions.
2006-08-15 09:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know exactly what you are going thru as well, since I'm in a similair situation. Love certainly is one of the hardest things to deal with in life, It can make you feel like ur on cloud 9, but also break you down.
Right now I'm also stuck between a rock and ahrd place trying to figure out what I should do........
2006-08-15 10:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Debs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer in love can conquer all. It is your life. It shouldn't matter about cultural differences, parents, in laws or religions. I can say this because I live it. I am American Chinese and my husband was raised traditional Chinese in Australia. His parents HATE me. Being an American is totally different than being traditional Chinese. It didn't matter, we loved each other and have made it work. It is our life, not theirs, we had to do what was right for us.
2006-08-15 09:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was ment to be then he'll come back sooner or later but if it wasn't then......
This is something every girl hates but if everyone can't see how happy you guys are together then they shouldn't really matter.Now I'm not talkin about running of 2 get married but just be patient...
2006-08-15 10:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you put all your trust, body and soul into the relationship and this consists of your privacy and dignity. Now you have to regain your privacy by letting someone else into your life.
2006-08-15 09:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by Spicy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the suitable situation to do is to furnish your heart time to heal via fact love cant be rushed it comes once you least anticipate takes issues in stride its for the suitable in case you do and likely in the commencing up it is going to likely be no longer person-friendly to recover from somebody you love however the situation is to do issues you like that wont remind you of the previous you had with your ex and to confirm which you to heal you are able to throw away each and every thing that reminds you of her and then and easily then you definately could have the skill to go on with your existence sure love can wreck and mend a heart yet you opt for for time for your self till now you flow back into yet another courting take this time to mirror and maximum suitable the blunders interior the final courting you had so which you will comprehend what to do and what to no longer do the subsequent time around to allow flow you will get rid of each and every thing that reminds you of her you will experience issues like anger and disappointment via fact your heart isn't waiting to allow flow yet yet you opt for for the time to take for your self and by utilising doing issues you like it is going to help with the potential of shifting and that i wish the subsequent time around which you will discover somebody who can love and honor and supply you the honour you deserve because you appear to be a compassionate man or woman and that i wish you experience greater useful each and every thing is going to artwork out for you all you opt for for is time and that i want you the suitable of success
2016-11-04 21:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys love each other they way you say you do you shouldn't leave him because of religion or anything else....in the end you will not forgive yourself for listening to your heart
2006-08-15 09:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋