I'm 22 and bi but never done anything with a girl but make out with her (that was when I was 16 and confused). I think I almost find girls more attractive than my boyfriend. I don't even know where to start! My boyfriend said we could have a 3some but I needed to pick out the girl. I feel really awkward trying to find a girl to hook up with.
- Is it the same as flirting with a guy?
- Do experienced bi-girls find "virgin" girls like me attractive?
- Besides going to an actual gay/lesbian club or bar, where else is a good place to meet?
- Are girls who are experienced with guys and know their own bodies well, good in bed with women? (I don't want to suck in bed with her!)
I always have a hard time I think because I'm a really girlie girl. I don't look like I would like girls and I think that's why I have a hard time getting bi/lesbian girls to even notice me. Also, would I cheating on my man if it was with a girl and just purely for pleasure?
Thanks in advance everyone!
2006-08-15 09:40:08 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think you should definitely try being with a woman. but beware, you may never go back to men!!! but your first time should NOT be a threesome. if you and the girl that you find hook up and make the evening really nice. candles, music, wine and all that, dont you worry, you will know exactly what to do. do what you have been fantasizing about all this time! as for meeting girls, sorry i dont have much advice about that. but you know its funny, cuz as ive been reading peoples answers to other questions like this, everyone keeps saying that they are bisexual, but very femme, so they dont think other girls will come up to them. i have seen lots of girls saying this, so maybe those of us who are femme and curious or bi should stop being so shy and just walk up to other hot females and talk to them! the worst that could happen is that they could reject us. but were tough enough for that right? and we're bound to find some one whose interested! anyway good luck!
2006-08-15 19:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
adultfriendfinder.com is a great site for meeting anyone for any kind of sex, or even just to talk about it. You can can be discreet as you like. And you can join free. It takes a little bit of time before you can view many profiles, but once you can, it's worth it.
If you're pretty or sexy, then bi girls would like you just as much as, or even more than guys. The cool thing about being with a woman is that you know each other's bodies because you're both women, so it's a lot easier to find out what each other likes. :)
Half of the bi-ladies I've talked to/met, are also girly girls. The common stereotype of butch lesbians, is actually very uncommon. Especially for bis, because they are attracted to both sexes, not just women.
2006-08-15 09:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by kikisdragon 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
IF you're of age,you can find them at online dating sites,just enter bisexual dating,and you'll get tons. I met all the women I was with online. I'm bi,too. I've always considered myself butchie,but turns out the women all think of me as femme,lol. Do tell your boyfriend,but,if you love him,I wouldn't suggest bringing someone else into the mix. Either wait until you're no longer together,and explore this side of you while single,which is what I did,or tell him you want to do it by yourself,and ask him if he;s ok with it. At least as far as I'm concerned,I can't have just "cheap sex" with someone without having feelings for the person.,especially where a woman's involved,maybe other women can,but I can't. Just don't rush into anything,and for heaven's sake don't do a 3some,don't know many people who've done that and are proud of doing it. Good luck
2006-08-15 15:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlie-girls can get love from women too, believe me, though in my experience, it's the stud types who'll look more often.
Virgins are just fine.
It's not the same as flirting with a guy--you have to be more forward.
You can meet a woman anywhere.
Enthusiasm is better than skill.
And finally, if he doesn't know about it and hasn't agreed to it, it's cheating. Same if she doesn't know about him.
Please think hard about your motivations. I'm not saying "don't do it", but think about what you have already, whether you can risk it, and how it may affect the partners.
2006-08-15 09:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently according to the black lesbian, redcatt something, they like to be **** on, try that!
2006-08-15 09:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋