**Post no judgmental replies please** This question is for those who find the idea erotic (whether or not they would act on it) if this is not you please keep you comments’ to yourself. There are many groups that discuss this topic but none that I have found that do it in a classy and respectful way. It is a common and powerful fantasy, whether acted on or not, and I would like to find a group of men and women to engage in a mature discussion of the topic and try to better understand its appeal.
2006-08-15 09:34:11 · 7 answers · asked by R B 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
there has been some research in this very topic. This behavior is normally placed into the fetish category. But some of the studies will tell you that this sort of behavior will sometimes enrich a marriage and even cause petty problems to evaporate. These couples don't have a hang up about their partner cheating. This sort of behavior seems to eliminate cheating and creates closeness.
2006-08-18 15:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no classy way to break the bonds of marriage because of the love of sex. Sorry thats just a worldy mans way of thinking. Hate to burst your bubble but thats the kind of stuff that gets peoples feelings hurt and heads blown off all the time. You're playing with fire just to fulfill your selfish fantasy and eventually you'll get burned permission given or not.
How can a person give you permission to break Gods laws?
2006-08-15 17:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by misterdeedub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a boyfriend of mine have sex with another female to see if she thought it was a good as I did. It turned out that it was and he loved the fact that I let it happen without being embarrassed or mad. He didn't do all of the things that he did to me but she enjoyed it none the less. I also think he got a kick out of it because it turned me on.
For some people, the idea of their spouse having sex with another person turns them on because it would be their spouse or mate releasing tensions that are tied up inside of them openly and therefore becomes more of a release for both of them. I wouldn't recommend that action for a couple that is not stable and can not handle the effects of what they may feel or even the realization that the tryst could possibly turn into something more.
2006-08-15 16:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
been there done that, it can be fun but both need to be adult about it. sex is a pleasure not an act, if u share that pleasure with another partner it should not... be a commitment to the people involved,but to the pleasure it self, and always ware a condom.
2006-08-16 15:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple and easy its cause its not your wife. There really isn't much to say other than do it. I think its hot. I also think its no different than cheating with or without permission. Why be married.
2006-08-15 16:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you clarify? Is this just you? or you and your wife? threesome? foursome? I'm not judging, just don't understand the situation.
2006-08-15 16:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with fantasy
2006-08-16 08:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by saintnichoolas 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋