My boyfriend says he loves me. I am turning thirteen and he is turning fourteen. He wants to go to teh movies with me again. We've been going out for at least seven and a half months. I love him. But when we started going out i asked him if would be ready to kiss me. He told me we should take things step by step. I agreed. Last night night night when my friend was over at my house he called me and asked if he could french kiss me the first day of school. He said whatever you feel comfortable with. I said I'd kiss him, regular type of kiss. But when summer got out Me and my cousin went to this place in gj. called Bannanas. I met this person named Drew. I gave him my phone number and we've gone on two dates. We talk on the phone/ email eachother constantily. I have no clue what i should do. I love nathaniel (which is my bf) but me and Drew love eachother also. I'm so confused right now. I feel like braking up with my bf. But i dont wanna brake his heart. Please give me advise.Please..
2006-08-15 09:32:03 · 31 answers · asked by luv4evermonkeys888 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
the only advise i can seriously give you is to think of what you have with each boy..and if those 7 1/2 months were a waste of time of if they were worth it with ure bf becuse if it was worth it then you belong with ure bf but if those months were a waste of time and u love ure bf but ure not inlove with him then maybe u should try someone new..but dont wait until a year or so to decide because the longer you take the more it will hurt ure bf if yall broke up
2006-08-15 09:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Popette, you are 13! Do you have any idea just how many times you will be in love and be girly and gigly all over and over again?
At the moment, you should only be allowed to go out with a group of kids your age that your parents approve and have similar minded parents as yours.
DO NOT RUSH INTO ANYTHING. Whatever pressures you feel now it is good that you are questioning your feelings. Innocents kisses and experimenting with kissing is normal but set boundries right now and don't cross them. Trust me by the time you are 16, you will have fallen in love a dozen times. It is puppy love, natural and beautiful and you will grow and learn from it so don't let those lessons be ones that you cannot handle and will regret for the rest of your life.
I know that I sound preachy but I was your age once and it matters not the decade, the experiences of confusion and doubt happens in every generation.
Also, speak to your parents and trust yourself to make good and sound decisions. Don't let any boy push you into anything you are uncomfortable about. The story never changes, they don't respect the girls who put out. They will take and move on.
A 14 year old boy doesn't have a clue what he wants or what he feels. We girls mature way faster and better that they do.
Good luck
2006-08-15 10:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Notorious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad truth is, you won't end up with either of them later in life, so it doesn't really matter what you do. It's normal what you're feeling because you are soooooo young that you haven't had a chance to experience love, or fun with many different people. Thus, leaving you curious to check out other options and try new things. This is normal, and exactly why you shouldn't tie yourself down to one boy anyway. The longer you let this go on, the more hurt someone is going to be, so cut him loose now, whoever it is going to be. You must decide now! Good luck, and remember, you have a long, long, life ahead of you, so keep your options open!
2006-08-15 09:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what your history is. Now, your only going to be 13 right? Well, you have your whole life ahead of you to worry about stuff like this. If you truely want to break up with Nate, then break up with him. Don't let this run your life. Just think about this one thing; you've known Nate longer than Drew. Nate wants to take things step by step. Does Drew? Remember, if things get to serious, take a step back to check out the view.
2006-08-15 10:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Depp_lover! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one of them has to mean a little more to you, and while your so scared to hurt Nathaniel, do you think being with Drew, and having him find out from someone other then yourelf wouldn't hurt him more?!. You need to follow your heart. If Drew is who you want to be with then, thats what you should do, I am sure your current boyfriend, will eventually undertand that everything happens for a reason!. Good Luck!
2006-08-15 09:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lyssa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend it is not person-friendly now and back to furnish somebody area once you're so used to spending time with. besides the undeniable fact that, while you're assume to be giving her area do basically that. Take this time to do some thing for your self. Do some thing which you have no longer accomplished in a at a similar time as like striking out with your associates or study a e book. Do some thing for your self and make the suitable of the time you have on my own.
2016-11-04 21:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You re thirteen you only love your mom and dad. You're a silly girl in puppy love with two boys and the one won't even kiss youafter seven months, I mean come on. If you think you are grown up enough to "love" someone don't you think you should be making out and having babies (just kidding). I just mean this should help you realize that you are young and this is just puppy love so don't stress until you're 25. Good luck!
2006-08-15 09:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by katiej47 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all i just want to say that you love no one! you are 12 years old and to young to know what love really is. I know that you are disagreeing with me right now but can you even discribe what it is like to be in love? And as for nathaniel i feel sorry for him, you are cheeting on him! it is better to tell him and have him brake up with you becuase you are a bad chick and he needs to get over you before you brake his little heart.
p.s. you dont know what love is untill you have loved tristan!
2006-08-15 13:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down there young lady. I know you do not want to hear this but you are too young for a boyfriend and you are way to young to love anyone. why are your parents even letting you date at your age? you are just 13 so you are just starting to mature and you need time to learn about the changes you are going through and concentrate on your school work. what school do you go to that would allow you to french kiss in school? my daughter's school will not even allow you to hold hands in school even if you are a senior.
2006-08-15 09:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by mama bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop talking to Drew. You and your boyfriend seem like you have a great realtionship. Not every guy wants to take it at your pace. You never know Drew maybe a jerk. Stick with your boyfriend.
2006-08-15 09:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋