My fiance' left me and my daughter we were together for 5 years and then decides he just don't love me anymore.
2006-08-15 09:27:11 · 9 answers · asked by razberryswirl26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am so sorry to hear that. Unfortunately it happens. There's nothing you can do about it. Sometimes things just get so "same old, same old" that we grow tired of it and crave more. He needs some time to grow up and put his priorities in check. Focus on your daughter. Good luck.
2006-08-15 09:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think That, That Happens When They Just Lose Inrest In You I Think That I Am Sort Of Going Through The Same Thing. It's Not That They Don't Love You It's Someone Else Has Their Attention And Being New They Enjoy Being Around Them More Sorry
2006-08-15 16:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know how much it hurts to be left. I've been on both sides of this issue. I was in a long term relationship where my boyfriend emailed me to tell me he wanted to break up. We were on the verge of moving in together and had discussed marriage. I was devestated. I could not understand why he would leave. I have also been the person to break up the long term relationship. I had another boyfriend who was great and things were fine but over time I began to lose interest. When I broke up with him, nothing he could have said or done would have made me change my mind. He was devasted and I felt bad doing it, but I had begun to fell trapped in the relationship. In hindsight I realize that in the relationship that I broke off, I was never really in love with him, not the way he was with me. We both deserved better. In the relationship where I was dumped at first I could not see past my own wants. Looking back I can see that I was so blinded by love and what I wanted that I never saw that it was really a troubled relationship. It's five years later and I can tell you that he did me a favor by breaking up with me. I won't give you advice but I will say that in my experience you can live without anyone. Men really are like buses. You may want this one but someone way better will come along. In the mean time just take care of yourself and your child.
2006-08-15 16:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a real hard question to answer, but there is no definite answer for that. It can be many things, the answer can only come from the guy himself. He will have to speak his mind in order for us to fathom the real reason why. What can I say, just try to be strong, something will work out on you and your child's behalf.
2006-08-15 16:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have sex with other women and doesn't find you attractive or exciting anymore. That's just the harsh truth. Forget him, take care of your daughter and move on.
2006-08-15 16:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by eskimo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men always want to have more than what they have and he only want sex and he don;t care about you but remember he will come back after the other dump him DON:T TAKE HIM BACK DUMP HIS A** for men love has no meaning and being with someone for so long how care about him he is stupid
2006-08-15 16:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably a lot of stuff over a long period of time that he just didn't want to deal with anymore.
2006-08-15 16:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a pig - hang in there baby
2006-08-15 16:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** happens
2006-08-15 16:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋