2006-08-15 09:01:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes you don't... Did you love him? It is very hard to break that bond, especially if you were married to him too...
Time is the great healer for all wounds, so don't try to force yourself to "get over" him if you're not ready to move on yet.
Take care...
2006-08-15 09:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Julia A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how long were you together. i have always wondered about this. i'm on the other end basically my husband has a daughter with another girl. thye got pregnant three months after they met and stayed together for a little over three years. do you ever get over the father of your kid? she is so mean to my husband and sometimes i feel its because she isn't over him. she has gotten remarried but it was for money not love and she trys to avoid talking to my husband all the time. she is even trying to take her daughter away from him. she never lets him see her even though the court says he gets her a few weeks a year. so i'm sorry i am answering you question with a question but it makes sense that you will never get over the father of your babies for the simple fact that you two got to expreience that wonderful moment together. so i am interested to see what others say.
2006-08-15 09:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~Saratini~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't specify what happened here...if he died "in good standing with you" then that will take lots of time
however, if he is still alive and you don't have a 'friendly' relationship with him, just keep telling yourself the reason that you are not together...
you don't specify if he is a good father, if not...that should help you get over him...if he IS, then you will have to deal with it
I keep telling myself what a low life scum bag father, husband, lover, companion MY kids' father is...it didn't take long at all!
2006-08-15 09:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't you just move on. Be a lady and a good mother never disrespect him in front of them or after he is deceased. Improve yourself and make their lives better. Provide a stable and loving home. Do not let this scar you for life there are many good men out there and you will find him the one for you.
2006-08-15 09:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by lona b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it and ask the FATHER GOD in heaven thru his son JESUS to help you and you will sometimes it takes time, Was mairred to 22 years to one wife and now i don't have her and all i have is the great boys she left me with and i have to look at them and tell them it wasn' t their falt that she is gone and it wasn't mine eather she made the dission to leave for another man. Anyway it all work's out now i talk to other people and go to chruch and meet alot of nice people. Hope's that helps?! Have a very great day!! Rene G.
2006-08-15 09:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by rteag@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over the father of your kids is to meet someone new! my daughters father was the so horrible to me he treated me like sh** and i still loved him then i met someone one of his friends actually he felt kinda bad for being with me but eventually he got over it and now we are married i still think about him from time to time but then i think about why we arent together and how happy i am without him.... hope that helped
2006-08-15 09:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by alvarez53403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah sounds like someone is still in love. Not sure what happened to cause the split but you need to move on in life. Everything happens for a reason. Must be someone better in the future for you.
2006-08-15 09:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by cramcram62 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the situation.
2006-08-15 09:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by gemone523 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, it was easy for me, the 3rd time he cheated on me:). I still say the happiest day of my life, was when he remarried(He doesn't even know where I'm at now,lol)
2006-08-15 09:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't think so cuz everytime u look at the kids u always remember the dad
2006-08-15 09:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋