i have asked a questio dealing with this sam thing just on another name. it is about weather i should go and see my lil. bro or not. because my bfs mom went and got a restrining order against her for NO REASON! and she cant call me or nothing untill christmas. well i talked to my bf about th answers i was gaven to by others and he says that we will just take off and go see him on thanksgiving. well i dont know what to do! his mom dont have coustandy of me yet but she is going to court over it now. i really miss him and he is only 6 what should i do should i just go? even if his mom says no to us? for more deatles look up the questin that says " what if my boyfriends mom tells me no?" please ome one help me
2006-08-15 08:58:57 · 25 answers · asked by in need of help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Mess with restraining order, go to jail.
2006-08-15 09:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK- Just to clarify. It seems to me you are living with your boyfriend and his mom. She got a restraining order against your mother so you can't see her nor your 6 year old brother until after Christmas. You don't believe she had a reason to get the restraining order. Your b/f mom doesn't have custody of you yet but is going to court to get it. You are afraid that your b/f's mom will get upset if you go and visit your brother so you are scared to go. However your b/f said you guys should just take off and see your brother around Thanksgiving because you miss him. You don't wan to be the cause of problems so your asking us if you should just go and see your brother. Am I right?
If so, it sounds like a real complicated mess. I am not sure why you are not living with your mother or why your bf's mom got the restraining order against your mother. Is there someone else's house that you could visit your brother at beside mom's. Like maybe an aunt, grandma, family friend? This way you can still see your brother but not by undermining the woman who is taking care of you. Maybe you could send your little brother a small present or card just to let him know you are still thinking of him and love him. You are really in a tough spot but right now you are dependant on your bf's mother. Tell her how much you miss your brother and see if it would be ok to take an alternate method of seeing him like arrangements made through a relative or something. It is probably not a good idea to upset this woman who is taking care of you right now.
2006-08-15 18:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your message was hard to understand. But I think I got it. As long as you are not being restrained then you are fine. If you thing the living situation is bad there then you should call social services. Do not bring your BF there cause you will get him in trouble. Try to call him and tell him you miss him. At 6 they cant understand why you would leave.
2006-08-15 16:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by momof2borninmarch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bfs mom got a restraining order on your 6yr old brother??? WHAT the hell are you talking about? Why does your bfs mother tell you what to do or not to do??
2006-08-15 16:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, this makes no sense at all!!! I read it three times and I cant understand why your boyfriends Mom has anything to do with your little brother?!?!?!!? What the hell are you talking about ?
2006-08-15 16:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want 2 see him so badly why don't u go but if u do u are puttin ur self at risk of gettin arrested and goin to jail so choose wisely
2006-08-15 16:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~you should just wait for awhile & let things clear up a little. you don't want to wind up in jeuvy for something like this. time will heal all wounds. take care & good luck with whatever you decide.~
2006-08-15 16:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by hlpz76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why cant you see him. if your bfs mom got the restraining order?
2006-08-15 16:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by prizzma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the order removed by another court order.
2006-08-15 16:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut up
2006-08-15 16:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋