Does your man cook and clean for you?

Question

I come from a family where my father taught me not only how to cut the grass, but how to clean aswell. I learned on my own how to cook. Now I prepare a hot dinner for my wife if I get home before she does. So ladies does your man do this for you or is it something you wish he would do? Do you feel that you would open up more if you did not have to do everything around the house sometimes?

Answer 1

Mine was very self sufficient when I met him. I love him dearly because he makes me feel like he WANTS me around...not that he NEEDS me around because he cant care for himself. He cooks, cleans does everything around the house when Im too busy to do things or if Im not feeling well.

Answer 2

I'm on my second marriage. My first husband did absolutely nothing to help me out around the house. He never cooked or even helped me cook. The same went for cleaning. Although he did a lot of griping about the cooking and cleaning. I hated him every minute for not doing those things.

My current husband is very understanding about those sorts of things. We help each other with everything. He gets home before I do during the day so he starts supper and when I get home I finish it. Then we clean the dishes together. He clears the table and wipes it down along with the counter tops and the stove as I'm washing the dishes. Then when he gets down with that he dries the dishes and when all that is done I put the dishes up.
When we are off we do all the house work together.

Also on the weekends, I'll cut the grass while he does the trimming around the yard. The only reason why he does the trimming instead of me is because I can not hold the weedeater for long periods of time.

It makes things run very smoothly for us. Due to this team work, we have fewer fights than any couples we know of or have ever known of.

Thank you for this question. I really like it.

Answer 3

In our house, I won't allow him to do any of the cooking or cleaning. He works hard all week and some weekends, too. I work 30 hour weeks, so I am able to make him breakfast in bed evry day and have a meal ready for him when he gets home. He does like to grill steaks when his family is over and he does great with grilling. I tend to the children, the inside of the house, the shopping, while he tends to the "outside" of the house - vehicle maintenance, yardwork, etc.

Answer 4

We have an unspoken agreement. When my husband cooks, I clean up. I would do anything to get out of cooking anyway. But the icing on the cake is, sometimes we do the dishes together. I like doing dishes because the kids run off and leave us alone. This is the time when we get to talk with no interuptions. PS. my kids do know how and are expected to do dishes also. I do them on weekends.

Answer 5

Yep, he's a better cook than I am. I do a bit more of the cooking/cleaning at the moment because of his job situation, but that will be changing soon, and he'll have the time to help more.

It's wonderful to be pampered- it doesn't have to be an elaborate meal to make a girl feel special!

Answer 6

My man loves to cook and is a great grocery shopper. When he cleans he does it quickly and efficiently. Now that I don't work anymore, the responsibility is on me to get the cleaning and cooking done, but he still likes to cook when he has time. I LOVE MY HUSBAND SOOO MUCH!!! He's the greatest, and everyone else should be jealous! P.s. Dusty Roads and the Riverband???? I love you guys!

Answer 7

Not all of the time. Sometimes we cook together, and do dishes together, sometimes one of us cooks and the other cleans up.

I think that if one person does all the work all the time, that they will likely grow to be a little bitter. For long term balance, I think it's better to more evenly distribute the household workload.

Answer 8

Right now I stay at home with my 3 year old daughter and I am also 6 months pregnant. My husband helps still helps out at home with the dishes and the yardwork. I cant tell you how tired I get some days and it is good to know that he is not going to be mad if I don't get everything done.

Answer 9

No, they dont like doing residing house artwork , as properly they dont would desire to . as a results of fact the classic turkish lady like pampering and spoiling their husbands and which will pay returned in lots of different procedures. So all and sundry is satisfied! however the favourite working turkish women are "raising" their husbands so as that they alter into extra "sensible" at residing house. Thats a sturdy subject, as a results of fact life isn't common for the two components and each thing would desire to be shared.I see that many youthful adult males help their better halves raising the youngsters and looking out after them. At my trip this 12 months i spotted that it became into specially the dads who have been unique and dealing after their little ones around the pool and on the eating places.I cherished that, they have become extra gentle and awareness. yet - as everywhere in the international there are continuously lazy adult males aswell...

Answer 10

My husband cooks every night. We get ready made meals so he easily cooks dinner & cleans the kitchen while I feed, bathe and put our son to bed. He's the best husband ever!!!