2006-08-15 08:47:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NEVER
2006-08-15 08:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think people confuse forgiveness with restoration. Forgiveness is what we do to release our own negative feelings on the matter. It frees US not them. Unforgiveness only hurts us not them. I have forgiven my natural father for his sexual abuse but that does NOT mean that I ever will have a relationship with him. That is not something I would see as valuable or healthy for me. But I don't hold onto those negative feelings anymore. To let what he did destroy me instead of make me a stronger person would be to let him win and give him power over me, which I will not do! I don't know if this helps you at all hon. I do know the process is not easy! Good luck!
2006-08-15 09:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
except the guy who's abused gets therapy or help of a few style,regrettably,the respond is particular! Why? by way of fact abuse is a cycle,it relatively is a trend,if there's a historic previous of any type of abuse on your loved ones,then except you do some thing to interrupt that trend then,regrettably,you're greater desirable than in all likelihood to be an abuser your self! look at me:I relatively have a family contributors historic previous of alcoholism,my dad is a recovering alcoholic(2 many years sober) and absolutely everyone on that facet of the family contributors are alcoholics(they are all in denial),yet by way of fact I relatively have that family contributors historic previous,my probabilities of being an alcoholic are that plenty greater desirable. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that,understanding this I relatively have taken steps to interrupt the cycle.1st of all I steer away from alcohol like the plague.additionally i for my section did circulate to the two AA and NA conferences and by using those conferences i for my section have been given in touch with myself and my matters as being the grownup baby of an alcoholic! So all people who've any family contributors historic previous of abuse of any style:the only thank you to interrupt the cycle is to confess to the fact which you do have a family contributors historic previous of abuse and get help fpr your self! Sorry if I ranted!
2016-12-11 09:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by pfeifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always forgive someone who has hurt you in any way. It's not for them, it's for you. If you don't forgive, you'll end up making the same mistake.
2006-08-15 08:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is a difficult call to make.
That depends on what you are willing to do.
If you choose never to forgive, that is your right.
2006-08-15 08:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. u can forgive but not forget. in other words, move on with ur life and let God take care of him if u chose to.
2006-08-15 08:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one! Because you can always forgive but you'll never FORGET !
2006-08-15 09:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you use the word should, you don't have to. you can choose to, or not. It's your call. you don;t them anything, and even oif they try to apologize or whatnot you still owe them nothing.
2006-08-15 08:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never! There is no excuse for doing that.
2006-08-15 09:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by blueeyedbabes90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive...maybe
trust again, NEVER
2006-08-15 09:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Commander 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be an unforgiveble act!
NEVER!
2006-08-15 08:53:23 · answer #11 · answered by Monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋