i am in love with 2 men there both awesome and i am so confused i dont know what to do some one have any advice.
2006-08-15 08:45:56 · 23 answers · asked by touchmykitty78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to choose. Get away from both of them, clear your head and make a decision. Stringing both of them along is a bad idea.
2006-08-15 08:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 some
2006-08-15 15:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by wizzard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off...LOVE is a strong emotion, I won't say it's impossible to love more than one because we all do. I love BOTH my girls...I LOVE all 5 of my Grandkids...I love both my parents and all my siblings...I LOVE my 5 dogs...
Depends on your age:
If your in your teens I'd say date them both, your too young to settle down right now to one person. Play the field, but don't confuse intimacy with playing the field, that's playing with fire.
If your in your 20's be open with both guys and tell them you like them both and want to keep seeing them both. They may not like sharing a girlfriend with someone else and it is their right to know about the other man in your life.
If your 30+ your an adult. You know by now what the outcome of seeing two different people will do. If one of them are the jealous type it could end very badly if he finds out without your being honest with him. Think about what could happen in this kind of relationship...what if you got pregnant? STD? What if you were out with one and ran into the other...What would you say? How would you explain it to him then and still keep both?
Honesty has got to be the best way to handle a situation like this. If all are in agreement then go for it...but be careful.
2006-08-15 16:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whom of the two do u actually love. We confuse our feelings, sometimes we may think that we love a person but its just lust or they make us feel special. Who would u want to stay with? Pros & cons might work try that.
2006-08-15 15:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart think about which guy you can spend your hold life and the one you cannot be without do something to test them and see which one loves you the most.
2006-08-15 15:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time away from both of them and decide what you really want. Don't let either of them influence you to pick them over someone else. Think about what you really want and go for it.
2006-08-15 15:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the one who treats you like you would want your daughter treated. Pick someone who makes up for the things you lack.
If you can't choose, throw a coin or pick the one with more $$$$$
2006-08-15 15:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by KelP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have to distance yourself, from the both of them to figure out what you want.
2006-08-15 15:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Cocoa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
examine your own priorities in a relationship... what you really need to flourish and go from there... choose the man who meets your standards the best
2006-08-15 16:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by Goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to date both guys
2006-08-15 15:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by adambrodyluver4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋