2006-08-15 08:30:42 · 9 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Overcoming disappointments are hard, I still have trouble with it. But Ive come to realize that life has lots of disappointments and if I let myself fall apart at each one of them that is all I'll be doing. As far as criticism goes, why not look at it as a tool to make yourself better ? When someone criticizes you, if you feel deep down inside they dont know what they are talking about, it wouldn't bother you so much because you wouldn't believe what they say about you. On the other hand if it upsets you maybe deep down inside you knew it but didn't want to admit it. Use it to better yourself.
2006-08-15 08:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's about what is inside you. Your drive, your perception, your self confidence. Everyone has disappointments, in that you are not alone. You just have to fill the space with another thing to look forward to.
As far as criticism goes...take it for what it is worth. If you think hard and realize there may be some validity take from it what you can. If you cannot, just ignore it.
2006-08-15 08:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When i am criticized i absorb it if it is true.. and if not i reject it. Simple as that. With life disappointments i try just to look at the optimism of things and whatever makes me feel better. Maybe talking to a close friend or b/f or g/f
2006-08-15 08:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with family and friends.
Always think positive of who you are and what your doing.
Start something new...join a bowling team or a community volunteer group.
Just remember life is full of disappointments but just as full of cherished moments.
For every criticism uttered there will be twice as many praises sent your way
2006-08-15 08:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thank you to conquer existence disappointments is to no longer make the comparable mistake. that may no longer be a robust answer. On grievance , I rather have been instructed to take that and make what i'm no longer doing or doing incorrect into the proper concern. unfavorable grievance would nicely be a bad concern however. you purely ought to truly evaluate what the guy is announcing and who the guy is.
2016-12-14 06:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by lindley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it's hard to forget especially depending on the situation..
But you have to leave it all in the hands of the lord....
You pray about it and you leave it there....because trust me whatever happened to you...those people have already moved on with there lives...and is not thinking about you at all period....
Trust me it's not easy for me to tell you this but sweet heart I have walked down this road before...surround yourself with positive people and get out and do stuff...keep your mind focused on other stuff...you know....
And when you feel down and out...again leave it in the hands of the lord...that always works for me...good luck
2006-08-15 08:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility for your actions, learn from your mistakes, and ignore others' judgements.
2006-08-15 08:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face them
2006-08-20 17:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept them
2006-08-15 08:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋