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Question

i am 17 and my bf is 16 and we have a 6 month old but that isnt the problem the problem is he never wants to kiss me or hug me or have sex with me and i want to know what you think the problam is cuz i ask him and he starts to say it then he says i dont want to talk about it like it is something bad and i know he isnt cheating on me because he lives with me since his parents kicked him out the day they found out i was pregnant so what do you think is wrong with him?

Please Help Me I Want Your Opinions

i dont need criticizm i need help on what is wrong with him

we dont live at my parents house we have my sisters old house

we dont live at my parents house we have my sisters old house

Answer 1

i don't know, he might be pissed cuz he has a kid and his parents hate him and maybe he wanted to go to collage..

Answer 2

hmm.. where do I begin..
Well first off, let me explain my situation to you...
I am a single mother of 2 beautiful children, I am 21 years old. I got pregnant with my daughter at the ripe ole' age of 16... I had her when I was 17, I then got pregnant when i was 18... I had my son when i was 19.
I know alot of people give teenage moms alot of problems but this is also because of the moms that give us moms a bad name. I graduated from h.s. I am going to college, I work a full time job, i just bought my own house... things are good, AND i am single. =)
But back to your question... Your bf, being 16 this is a MAJOR change on him, your child is only 6 months old, I understand you need that love and affection from the man you love, but remember, he isn't really mature enough to understand that... I am sorry to say, having a child at such a young age changes some people but other people it doesn't. Have you thought about going to some classes or therapy together. LIke I know someone else answered on here, mabye he is scared that you may get pregnant again... when I had my daughter, I was scared to death I would get pregnant I didn't have sex for a year later...
I think you just need to give him some time to warm up to the fact that he is responsible for another human being besides himself, I am sure there is alot of stress in the household (having a child is hard for anyone ANY age), just give it time... =)
Hope everything works out, and just know that there are people out there that were in your situation and things do get better...
Good luck, if you need anything, my IM name is mandyandbaby2000

Answer 3

Sounds like where I was at some many years back,we were young,he couldnt handle the pressure of being a father,because its a big responability,so he cheated and cheated all the time,had jobs lost them and slapped me around some. and he says cause he felt trapped he was too young to know any better. well I ended up having 4 kids and the cheating never stopped,finally I got tired and divorced him. Please just leave even if it hurts,cause he will probably leave with someone else anyways. Good luck

Answer 4

Look don't listen to all the people on here who are saying you are so bad of a person God loves you anyway and you cant take back what you have already done. So look don't get depressed over the dad give him some time and allow God to work it out. God has a plan in all this and soon enough it will be reviled.

Answer 5

I think that question is exactly what you need to be asking him. Sit down with him and tell him that he needs to give you a straight forward-honest answer. Enough is enough an you need to know. One thing I have heard before is that sometimes, especially with younger men, is they don't look at you the same way. YOu aren't a sexy fixen any more that he fooled around with, he's looking at you like your the mother of his child and sometimes that can really turn men off (unforunately). Sorry I don't know if that helps but Good luck!

Answer 6

He may be worried that you will get pregnant again. He may see you differently now that you have had a child, some men have issues with seeing a mother in a sexual way. You too need to sit down and talk about it.

Answer 7

It can be many different things. He might be scared of growing up and being a man, he might want out of the relationship but doesn't know how to say it. Keep asking him but don't pressure him if he doesn't want to talk about it. He will tell you when hes ready he's ready.

Answer 8

You two diffinitely need to talk about what is going on. You say that he doesn't want to talk, then does he really want to make this relationship work? You are both very young, however, since the day you decided to sleep together and conceive, you opted to be treated as adults. ACT LIKE ADULTS!!

Answer 9

he is still immature. It was fun and games when you two were having sex and what not but now thats hes forced to grow up,hes starting to lose interest you. Its not fun to him anymore. i suggest you foxus on your child and let him go if he wants(make sure he gets a job and pay child support though) let me add that i got pregnant at 18 and when i did thats when my ex started beating the crap out of me....just let him go

Answer 10

Maybe he is just overwhelmed by a serious relationship and child at such a young age. Maybe he is realizing now what he has gotten himself into.

Answer 11

May he not ready to ba a father, maybe you should go back home and go back to school, you can get help,there are free program There are one call child care action,Talk to him and let him know your plans. life is not over with take care