Woah...what on earth is your friend doing having sex at age 11? That is completely ridiculous! Anyways, about your friend telling someone, she needs to tell someone. If she waits it is just going to get worse. No matter what, somebody is going to know. She needs to tell her parents. If your friend is too scared to tell her parents, then be there with her when she does, just so that she feels secure and has a little more confidence in herself.
2006-08-15 10:02:06
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answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5
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Has anyone thought that maybe her spelling is not the issue here? How can we tell if people who have spelling issues aren't dislexic or have a learning disorder? I am not saying she does, but just reminding people that we never know so we should be sensitive to everyone.
To answer your question: urge your friend to seek help immediately. Tell her that her health and the health of her baby are in danger if she does not see a doctor and tell her family. The stress caused by keeping a pregnancy a secret can cause a lot of problems for the mother and the baby. I know its hard to tell someone, but if she does not then I think you should tell your mother and ask what she thinks you should do. I hope the best for your friend and her baby. Be there for her as much as you can and please learn from your friends actions and be safe.
2006-08-15 08:45:12
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answered by missesbean 3
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You should run spell check first because even though you are asking a serious question you sound like an idiot which you may not be.
First you should talk to her and urge her to tell an adult.
You cant interfere too much. Just stand by her and support her because she will need a good friend now more than ever.
2006-08-15 08:24:43
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answered by momof2borninmarch 3
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You need to advise her to talk to some one she can trust about this. She's far too young to be alone and pregnant without a supportive adult. It can be a very worrying, frightening time. Also she needs to make some decisions about what she does next, and really should get antenatal care for her sake and that of the baby..
2006-08-15 09:20:18
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answered by xbkw46 4
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Advise your friend to seek professional advice as soon as possible. She should see her doctor, nurse, or school counsellor or visit an advice centre. The situation must be dealt with, and the sooner she gets help the better. Make sure she does this - you could go with her if she wants - and then you won't need to tell anyone else.
2006-08-15 08:25:04
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answered by mad 7
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Your friend needs to get help, from an adult, she needs to see a doctor too - she is very young to be having sex, never mind having a baby! There's no point in her trying to hide it, because it will become obvious in a few months, and anyway, she needs to look after her health now.
2006-08-15 09:06:28
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answered by Orla C 7
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Be her friend. Don't betray her trust in you, she will need that trust more than ever if she is having trouble sharing this information with her family and the baby's father. As long as she doesn't put herself and her child at risk, just give her your advise and love and hold here secret.
2006-08-15 08:28:31
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answered by Pundit Bandit 5
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She needs to tell an adult. If she is worried about her folks reaction then find an adult who will stand at her side. A teacher, an auntie anyone. This is too big to not have grown up help.
2006-08-15 08:26:36
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answered by Juniper C 4
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Support her and help her. Encourage her. Be there for her. Let her know what you think. Please dont suggest abortion. Nor adoption. Cause losing somethin that is a part of you can cause depression. Tell her to go to the doctor to check on the baby.
2006-08-15 08:26:07
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answered by Anonymous
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support here and try to convince here to tell someone so she can get to the doctor to see if everything is OK. I was Pregnant about a month ago i didn't go see a doctor i got really sick and had a miscarriage.
2006-08-15 08:24:24
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answered by Loving Life 2
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