Am I paranoid? My bfriend came home afvter being gone all weekend. Normally he'd be excited to see me. He was, but when we you-know-what he only produced a very small amount of 'man juice'. Now, i know him and that is not normal. He tells me theres no way that has to do with anything. But he did the same thing today, and I had the feeling he did something this weekend. Is that really a good indicator? I know him VERY well, for almost 5 years now. Please help! I cant take it anymore, its like a slap in the face when that happens!
2006-08-15 07:34:30 · 14 answers · asked by mandycool01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I honestly don't think the amount of sperm he has is an indicator of him cheating on you. Before you freak out on him you might want to get some more solid evidence.
2006-08-15 07:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not assume that just because he had a small amount of "man juice" that he is cheating. Now if he was making secret phone calls and disappearing for days, then you might be justified in your suspicions...but I believe you hit the nail on the head when you asked if you were paranoid...
chill out and go with the small flow...
2006-08-15 14:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by wastedyouth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girrrrrrl, calm down. men masturbate all the time (as do women), and he's normal. don't accuse the man of cheating unless you have some real proof. i'm not saying that in a rude way either, I just don't want you to accuse him and mess up a good thing. he probably won't admit it, but I think he maturbated because he missed you so much.
also c um is knocked off balance by a number of tthings, like how much he ate, or what he ate, so just relax, you need a better indicator than his love juice to accuse him of cheating
2006-08-15 14:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by Monique C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Do you get out a table spoon and measure? He could've wacked off before he saw you, if he's been away all wkend maybe he missed you. Maybe he didn't eat so good and thats why he's not producing as much c*m. But either way I think thats a bad way to decide someone's cheating on you.
If you notice other strange behavior in combination I would be concerned.
2006-08-15 14:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did he say he went over the weekend? If he's being sketchy about that, I'd worry more than what he's failing to produce. The reason I say that is that he probably gives himself a "hand" once in a while and that could also be the culprit.
2006-08-15 14:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not an indication of cheating. jeez. so many paranoid women. look, he probably masturbated a lot to you while you were gone. also, it could be stress that's lowering his sperm production. i went through the same thing about a month ago. just let him relax, and dont put any pressure on him about it. his count will go back up. don't take it as a personal insult every time he doesn't blast a huge load. just relax. it'll fix itself.
2006-08-15 14:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's cheating, then he most likely is. Women have intuitions for a reason. You are the only one that knows your man and if the love making isn't the same then some thing is going on.. Think with you heart it will never lead you wrong!
2006-08-15 14:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by truckmama_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what to do...if he took a bag with him over the weekend, put a bra and pair of panties in it that are not yours, take the bag out in front of him, and snatch out the underware, asking him who's it is. I'm sure you will figure out the rest from there.
2006-08-15 14:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably did it himself. They can only produce so much after a few hours.
2006-08-15 14:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall have been together for five whole years and you think [i mean THINK] hes cheating you need to reevaluate your relationship because it seems trust isnt very strong!
so get the truth but dont ruin anything if he is tellling the truth five years is ALOT to waste!
2006-08-15 14:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by meg[adores jessica simpson] =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋